i'm not crazy, right?

[cheeseandcrackers]

My mother is giving me a hard time because I don't want her and my dad to ride with us to the beach on our wedding anniversary and stay in the same hotel. She thinks I am making a big deal out of it and can't understand why we can't just make it into a family trip. They are going to get there own room of course, she says LOL. 

I'm not crazy and mean for not wanting to have them around on our anniversary, right? Kind of takes the romance out of it, ha. I don't think my H would appreciate that too much either, but she is seriously offended.

[lime]

She'll get over it.

[rosiedozie]

Um, not crazy at all. Where did she get the idea that this was a group vacation?

[wambam]

Why would she want to accompany you on an anniversary trip? Has she never taken an anniversary herself?

[jane6672]

Your mom is on crack.

[wrathofkuus]

No. She's being crazy.

[SKP82]

Why is she inviting herself on your anniversary trip? RUDE!

[demofea01]

She's being odd. Since when is an anniversary trip the perfect time for a family vacation? Keep telling her no and that it's not really up for discussion. Maybe she can suggest/plan a different time and outing for a family get together?

[Deleted]

There's no way I would bring my mom on my anniversary trip.

[Tea-rific]

You are definitely not crazy. She is crazy for thinking it is acceptable to crash your anniversary trip. Just say no.

[BlackCanary]

She's crazy, not you. It's your anniversary, what is she thinking?! Or smoking? 

[snickers]

Having your parents around would sure put a damper on the mood, you aren't crazy.

[livinitup]

Is your anniversary on Christmas Day?

Of all of the expectations parents place on holidays and family events, I think its okay to actually push back on YOUR ANNIVERSARY.

This would be an excellent time to not give into your mother's guilt trip and temper tantrums. And by good, I mean, good for YOU.

[eb777888]

Jul 22, 2013 19:41:42 GMT -5 cjoy said:

Tell her they're really cramping your plans to give road head.

lol!!

[wannabe]

...the fuck?

[meganew]

This is weird. So many boundary issues.

[montereybride]

"Mom, this is a romantic trip for me and H where we will be celebrating our marriage while also celebrating the fact that fucking each others brains out is not frowned upon by the church. You're not coming with us."



But then, I'm crass. .

[moolarkey]

You may want to change your destination and not tell her. I'm a MIL and I wouldn't do that to my kids.

[cheeseandcrackers]

Lol, okay, that's what I thought. I'm glad I am not the only one weirded out by this.
I'll try to plan a beach trip with them that is NOT on our anniversary, ha. Gotta create boundaries somewhere..

[Deleted]

Where did she get the idea to join you? Like, how did this come up in conversation the your parents would ride with you?

ETA: ILY Sue sue but I'm cracking up at "block her tweets"