So now I have a total of three packing lists, one from @trigirl, one from my team's coach and one from my cousin. The best thing on my cousin's packing list: victory speech.
Should I start writing it now, or just on the way up to the race??
You have to write your race report while you are racing! Well, not literally. But, before my first IM, I was told to stay in the moment and not worry about the finish line until I was there. I took that to heart and it did a few things for me... 1. I stayed calm throughout the day, 2. I enjoyed the whole experience and learned that it's the day that counts, not just the finish, 3. I remember so much of that race, and 4. the finish line was a great moment to be savored when the time came.
I like calling it a victory speech rather than a race report!