I'm scared and I'm angry. I'm shaking so bad.

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My sister (same father) is on FB talking about suicide. She posted a picture and she looks so bad right now.

Her exBF passed away a few days ago and she's taking it hard. She apparently just changed her phone number and I don't have the new one. My brother is going to try to get a hold of her, but he doesn't know if he has her number.

I'm so angry at my dad...because he passed away, it fucked up her life bad...it fucked up all our lives in a way, and she's never been ok. She's in to drugs and stuff bad...she's such a mess. Maybe it's irrational to think that way, but I'm feeling angry towards him. I live in fear of the call that my sis has died...it's been close a couple of times.

I'm absolutely sick with fear right now. She's posting about going to her cousin who died years ago. I've never hoped for someone just being dramatic so hard in all my life.

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It's times like this that I'm reminded that I do have a problem with alcohol, because my first reaction after knowing I can't do anything this second is to have a strong, strong drink. I badly want a drink right now.

[ILikeSloths]

Omg. Do you where she's living or where she is right now? Can someone go check on her? If you know where she is but don't know of anyone to check on her then call the police. Don't hesitate.

I'm sorry and big hugs. That's scary.

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I thought of calling the police, but she moved not too long ago and I don't have the new address. I just know the city, and it's a big city. The house wouldn't be in her name My brother couldn't get a hold of her either...his number is the same one I have.

[darkling_glory]

Yes, call the police Otter! I'm so sorry. I hope your sis will be okay and she can get the help she needs.

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She lives in Topeka...do you think that they can do anything if I don't have an address?

[mayflowers22]

Jun 16, 2012 21:10:25 GMT -5 @otterama said:

She lives in Topeka...do you think that they can do anything if I don't have an address?

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If you have her phone # they can track it.

[darkling_glory]

They might be able to. It can't hurt to call!

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Jun 16, 2012 21:14:52 GMT -5 mayflowers22 said:

Jun 16, 2012 21:10:25 GMT -5 @otterama said:

She lives in Topeka...do you think that they can do anything if I don't have an address?

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If you have her phone # they can track it.

Her phone is shut off...otherwise, I could just call her and make sure she's ok.

[ILikeSloths]

If they don't have an address or a phone number then they won't know where to look, but I would call anyway just to see if they have any ideas for what to do.

If you can figure out where she is then they'll go there and take her to a hospital to get evaluated and possibly stay overnight if she poses a threat to herself. DH does this often at work.

Does anyone know where she lives now, any friends or anything? Maybe you can message a few close friends on Facebook?

[mayflowers22]

Jun 16, 2012 21:15:47 GMT -5 @otterama said:

Jun 16, 2012 21:14:52 GMT -5 mayflowers22 said:

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If you have her phone # they can track it.

Her phone is shut off...otherwise, I could just call her and make sure she's ok.

I think you can track her picture if she took it with her phone. (No expert though)

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I've been messaging people on FB...nobody can reach her. I did call the police there and gave them all the information I had. They are going to the only address that I have and have police on the lookout for her based on the description. They will call me with any news.

That's all I can do. I just hope it's enough

[ILikeSloths]

({) Otter (})

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Thank God...someone finally got a hold of her...she's ok now and calming down. I'm so glad she's ok.

[ILikeSloths]

What a relief! I hope she gets some help.

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I do, too, but I don't see it happening I wish I could be callous about her...it would make my life so much easier.

[mayflowers22]

Jun 16, 2012 21:32:15 GMT -5 @otterama said:

Thank God...someone finally got a hold of her...she's ok now and calming down. I'm so glad she's ok.

Glad to hear this!

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OMG - I am so so sorry, Otter. All your feelings are justified. THere is just so much going on.

I really hope you can contact her soon. You know how to reach me if you need me.

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I would call the police. If she's posting on FB, the police can find the IP address. Especially if she's using her phone to post

ETA - And I just finished reading the entire thread. I am so glad she was found safe. I hope she gets the help she needs soon.

And otter - DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF for this. I know you!

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I hope everything is okay. On the plus side, her being on fb talking about suicide is a cry for help and someone could still reach out to her and help.

[darkling_glory]

I'm glad you got a hold of her... and I echo what Dovey say, "DON'T BLAME YOURSELF."

You can't help other people's choices. You can only help your own choices. If you need anything let me know...

[blondemoment123]

I'm so glad she's ok.
((hugs))

[prettyflygirl]

I'm so glad she's okay! I hope that she gets some help.

[Deleted]

Such a relief that someone wasable to get in contactwith her. I hope she is willing to get some help.

[lizo11]

**hugs** Hopefully she gets the help she needs, and hopefully everyone now has her new phone number.

[lizardesque]

I'm glad someone was able to contact her. If you haven't already, get her new contact information for future reference!

[shorty20]

Oh my, I'm so glad you got a hold of her. PP was right, it was a cry for help, so hopefully she can get the help she needs.

As a side note, I know exactly how you feel. My one brother attempted suicide numerous times (never succeeded), but the worry just made our family literally sick with fear.

Hugs to you and your sister.