Good luck today, @cuddlyevil!

[margarita]

I think that all of those feelings are pretty normal, but you're not doing anything wrong. If you do decide to leave, (and that's still an 'if' at this point), it will hurt him, but that's not a reason to stay in a situation where you are unhappy.

[starrieskies]

I think that's a normal feeling, cuddly. I felt that for a long time too.

You have to take care of yourself and your happiness. You can't take responsibility for their feelings, only your own. Yes, there will be hurt feelings, but yours have been hurt plenty and what difference did that make to your H??

[cuddlyevil]

Good points ladies. This is why I am in therapy--right? To get clear on what I need/want to do and then help me through the process.

I'm leaving work now, I'll probably be on later.

[starrieskies]

Therapy rocks, and so do you cuddlyevil!