Tell me to stop having hurt feelings over this.

[katiecj]

I don't think anyone can tell you not to be hurt about something.

But I would keep in mind that you sent him a text that hit him below the belt saying "good luck dating someone your own age." I'm thinking that he has a sore spot about his age.

He retaliated in a way that he knew would hurt you back.

I'm glad you realize that it's a toxic relationship/friendship and that you can move on from here.

[doriswe]

I swear I'm not trying to be snarky, so please don't read this as such:

I don't get the whole MY place thing. It's a public place that you frequent, yes, but other people are permitted to go there. I guess I don't get why you text him in the first place. If you were going there, you could have easily gone in and met your friends and went on about your night. If he stumbled on you, you could have exchanged some niceties, and then gone back to enjoying the evening with your friends and him with his date. Is it possible, he's a dick and wanted to get under your skin, sure, but that's under your control, kwim?

I'll agree that you both played dirty at the end and I'm sure his comment did hurt, but I'm guessing yours to him did also.

Let it go....he's not worth your time or effort!

ETA: Delete his number and be free of this craziness!

[starburst604]

Jun 17, 2012 20:28:35 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I swear I'm not trying to be snarky, so please don't read this as such:

I don't get the whole MY place thing. It's a public place that you frequent, yes, but other people are permitted to go there. I guess I don't get why you text him in the first place. If you were going there, you could have easily gone in and met your friends and went on about your night. If he stumbled on you, you could have exchanged some niceties, and then gone back to enjoying the evening with your friends and him with his date. Is it possible, he's a dick and wanted to get under your skin, sure, but that's under your control, kwim?

I'll agree that you both played dirty at the end and I'm sure his comment did hurt, but I'm guessing yours to him did also.

Let it go....he's not worth your time or effort!

ETA: Delete his number and be free of this craziness!

Agree with all of this. Block/delete his crazy, gay-in-denial ass.

[dakotadangerdog]

Yeah... Should have never texted him in the first place and just ignored him... The whole fighting over text thing while he's on a date sounds pretty immature on both your parts. You should probably just delete his number and avoid him in the future.

[theycallmeliz]

Delete!

We all have those hindsight moments we cringe about... where we allow ourselves to stoop to their level, or say something we really shouldnt have. Its ok to be hurt, but you said it yourself. You asked for it after the text you sent him. So just delete his number and be free of this drama and madness. You'll be so much better off...

Oh and if he continues to text, just DO NOT REPLY. NO MATTER WHAT.

[missbetty1]

Jun 17, 2012 20:28:35 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I swear I'm not trying to be snarky, so please don't read this as such:

I don't get the whole MY place thing. It's a public place that you frequent, yes, but other people are permitted to go there. I guess I don't get why you text him in the first place. If you were going there, you could have easily gone in and met your friends and went on about your night. If he stumbled on you, you could have exchanged some niceties, and then gone back to enjoying the evening with your friends and him with his date. Is it possible, he's a dick and wanted to get under your skin, sure, but that's under your control, kwim?

I'll agree that you both played dirty at the end and I'm sure his comment did hurt, but I'm guessing yours to him did also.

Let it go....he's not worth your time or effort!

ETA: Delete his number and be free of this craziness!

I agree... :Y: