I am only 5 weeks, but I couldn't hold it. They were super excited but then Anna said "I hope he doesn't die like our other baby" (I miscarried at 11 weeks last time). Aaa argh, I hope not too! :::tears:::
Now I wish I hadn't told them in case something happens, but really I would be a mess and she would want to know what is wrong anyway. And everything will be fine, right?
Thanks everyone:) I think the most heartbreaking part last time was how sad she was. And while it is a faulted reasoning, we had waited for a heartbeat to tell them and m/c anyway, so you can't have everything perfect, right?