Things that make me want to vomit

[bigapple]

This woman's straggly hair is all over my legs. I'm trapped in the inner bus seat, and she keeps swishing it across me.

What's bothering you this evening?

[bebeetmoi]

That's freaking beyond disgusting! It's bothering me that I'm exhausted and need to sleep, but can't. 

[lauranicole91]

Omg I'm laughing so hard.

I'm having a great night so currently nothing bothering me. I just got home from the bar, Pey is asleep, and in devouring ice cream. Sorry.

[TrudyCampbell]

Omg I'm going to throw up over that. SO NASTY.

[charlielove]

Noooooo! I think I would bleach my knee.

[teamhayes]

puke

I take public transpo to work and I always think how nasty it is to actually rest your head back /..... so many germs


let alone on your body


I would flip my shit (internally) to say the least

[jaime183]

omg i want to barf for you. That hair is nasty.

[teamhayes]

vomit(ous) things

have to clean my house

the major shit my child did and I had to clean

being too large to wear human clothes and not losing an ounce in 30 days

I am in a pissy mood.

I love my new boy but FU for making mommy fat.

[TrudyCampbell]

teamhayes you're breast feeding! Give yourself a break! 30 days is nothing. Just rest and nourish yourself as much as possible. I'm sure you look amazing, you're gorgeous!

[teamhayes]

Aug 6, 2013 21:56:18 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

teamhayes you're breast feeding! Give yourself a break! 30 days is nothing. Just rest and nourish yourself as much as possible. I'm sure you look amazing, you're gorgeous!

I am tired of this, uggg so tired.
With K I felt like me again after a few weeks, this little wonder child has ruined his moms body. SHUT UP I know but I hate my limited wardrobe, etc.

it is on. me and mh are in a race to lose 15 first. I know he will win but I love competition and it holds me accountable.

Plus he ate a bday cupcake and 3 beers tonight, go mama!

[teamhayes]

and I wont talk about my weight "issues:" for a solid 3 days, promise. I get the ultimatums daily, heck hourly from mh.

I just realllllllly want to wear real clothes again and feel pretty without having to buy so manyu new things.

[TrudyCampbell]

Aug 6, 2013 22:02:13 GMT -5 teamhayes said:

and I wont talk about my weight "issues:" for a solid 3 days, promise. I get the ultimatums daily, heck hourly from mh.

I just realllllllly want to wear real clothes again and feel pretty without having to buy so manyu new things.

I get wanting to feel like yourself but you JUSTTTT had a baby. I don't know what ultimatums your H is giving you but he should be bringing you nutritious snacks as you care for and breast feed his newborn son.

You'll lose the weight, just relax! Have you even been medically cleared for exercise yet? You make me worry about you.

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Aug 6, 2013 22:05:20 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

Aug 6, 2013 22:02:13 GMT -5 teamhayes said:

and I wont talk about my weight "issues:" for a solid 3 days, promise. I get the ultimatums daily, heck hourly from mh.

I just realllllllly want to wear real clothes again and feel pretty without having to buy so manyu new things.

I get wanting to feel like yourself but you JUSTTTT had a baby. I don't know what ultimatums your H is giving you but he should be bringing you nutritious snacks as you care for and breast feed his newborn son.

You'll lose the weight, just relax! Have you even been medically cleared for exercise yet? You make me worry about you.

I think this has been covered before, but your H sounds like a dick.  teamhayes you are a gorgeous woman and you looked fantastic in all the pics you have posted.  H needs a kick in the nads if he is giving you ultimatums this soon after having a baby.  Actually, he shouldn't be giving ultimatums AT ALL.

Fuck that.
Sorry.
My DH would never in a million years tell me I was fat, let alone give me an ultimatum.

[bigapple]

Aug 6, 2013 22:05:20 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

Aug 6, 2013 22:02:13 GMT -5 teamhayes said:

and I wont talk about my weight "issues:" for a solid 3 days, promise. I get the ultimatums daily, heck hourly from mh.

I just realllllllly want to wear real clothes again and feel pretty without having to buy so manyu new things.

I get wanting to feel like yourself but you JUSTTTT had a baby. I don't know what ultimatums your H is giving you but he should be bringing you nutritious snacks as you care for and breast feed his newborn son.

You'll lose the weight, just relax! Have you even been medically cleared for exercise yet? You make me worry about you.

All of this. I know how hard it is to not feel like yourself, especially in skin-revealing summer clothes, but you can't rush it. I had a really hard time last summer not crash dieting and exercising to my happy weight, which was my usual MO. It took about 4-5 months, but the baby weight all went away. I know that's not what you want to hear right now, but you will be where you want to be again. I just want you to be healthy and safe in the meantime.

You're gorgeous. Tell S to suck it

[Deleted]

teamhayes I'm worried for you too... You just had a baby! You are beautiful. Please at least wait until you're cleared to exercise and I'm sure if you're eating even semi-healthy and breastfeeding then you are doing great!

bigapple move your legs and accidentally get it caught so she'll move it! Chick needs a bun!

[teamhayes]

Aug 6, 2013 22:05:20 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

Aug 6, 2013 22:02:13 GMT -5 teamhayes said:

and I wont talk about my weight "issues:" for a solid 3 days, promise. I get the ultimatums daily, heck hourly from mh.

I just realllllllly want to wear real clothes again and feel pretty without having to buy so manyu new things.

I get wanting to feel like yourself but you JUSTTTT had a baby. I don't know what ultimatums your H is giving you but he should be bringing you nutritious snacks as you care for and breast feed his newborn son.

You'll lose the weight, just relax! Have you even been medically cleared for exercise yet? You make me worry about you.

Nooo the ultimatums are shut the heck up already about losing weight I am tired of hearing about it yada yada yada u r dtill pretty and we cab buy new clothes nonsence

[TrudyCampbell]

Aug 6, 2013 22:20:38 GMT -5 teamhayes said:

Aug 6, 2013 22:05:20 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

I get wanting to feel like yourself but you JUSTTTT had a baby. I don't know what ultimatums your H is giving you but he should be bringing you nutritious snacks as you care for and breast feed his newborn son.

You'll lose the weight, just relax! Have you even been medically cleared for exercise yet? You make me worry about you.

Nooo the ultimatums are shut the heck up already about losing weight I am tired of hearing about it yada yada yada u r dtill pretty and we cab buy new clothes nonsence

Okay, good, and he's right. You have your body to thank for two gorgeous sons. Please give yourself a break for now! You are still recovering.

[teamhayes]

Fyi mh can and is a dick but he is good lately about moral support woth my body image issues.

And as sucky of a husband he can be he is a kick ass dad, I could never sah and he rocks taking care of k (I still mostly tale care of m) and brongs him everywhere and they play so hard and the laughs!

He is rough around the edges but is new at this new life. He didn't ask for it so the adjustment is still raw and hard

[bigapple]

Hehe, she said "raw and hard."

[bigapple]

Aug 6, 2013 22:18:50 GMT -5 ladybug said:

bigapple move your legs and accidentally get it caught so she'll move it! Chick needs a bun!

I jumped off the bus and walked the last ten blocks home. He hair was good exercise motivation.

[teamhayes]

[teamhayes]

Aug 6, 2013 22:37:11 GMT -5 @chelsmonster said:

Aug 6, 2013 22:26:12 GMT -5 teamhayes said:

Fyi mh can and is a dick but he is good lately about moral support woth my body image issues.

And as sucky of a husband he can be he is a kick ass dad, I could never sah and he rocks taking care of k (I still mostly tale care of m) and brongs him everywhere and they play so hard and the laughs!

He is rough around the edges but is new at this new life. He didn't ask for it so the adjustment is still raw and hard

I'm confused- what do you mean "he didn't ask for it?"

You are beautiful and need to give yourself a break!

Being a sahdad.

He got laid off at the end of April and we decided he would sah with the boys til atleast Jan. Not the life he chose for himself but he is doing better than I ever could.

24 7 is a long day with a 15 mnth old fOr anyone

[Deleted]

Aug 6, 2013 22:20:38 GMT -5 teamhayes said:

Aug 6, 2013 22:05:20 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

I get wanting to feel like yourself but you JUSTTTT had a baby. I don't know what ultimatums your H is giving you but he should be bringing you nutritious snacks as you care for and breast feed his newborn son.

You'll lose the weight, just relax! Have you even been medically cleared for exercise yet? You make me worry about you.

Nooo the ultimatums are shut the heck up already about losing weight I am tired of hearing about it yada yada yada u r dtill pretty and we cab buy new clothes nonsence

Oh ok!  Sorry!!

Regardless, you are definitely NOT FAT and I think we all understand that our self-image takes a hit after having a baby.  For me it was worse with #2 as well.  But don't worry, you will bounce back no problem

[AndyCohen]

Sorry, but I'm chucking over the "vomit" and "disgusting!!" comments about a woman's hair. I mean, it's not like it's pubes, it's a ponytail. Just fartin'.