I retained a lawyer today...

[usedtobebear]

::HOLD ME::

I was hoping I could get a simple divorce and since it seems like DH and I agree on things that it would be amicable. But, his behavior is still pretty erratic and I am sick of waiting for him to make a move. So, I just put a $2000 retainer fee on my credit card. Yikes!! I'm just so done, and I know we will never reconcile and I just want it over with.

I also took of my wedding ring this weekend, which was a huge step for me, I've worn that ring every day for the last 9+ years, I never took it off.

I'm feeling stronger every day! Yippee!!

[Deleted]

Yay for you and for taking the frist step to a new life!

[doriswe]

Good for you! It's a scary step, but it's a step in the right direction!