I assume I have a nasty vm from xfil and I'm avoiding it

[thebamker]

I sent him an email about the "don't tell your mom I'm letting you shoot guns" thing. I tried to stay calm and not say mean shit I would regret, but it wasn't nice by any means.

I wish he would have just answered my email bc I don't like 'in person' confrontation unless I'm in the moment and all heated up. Otherwise, it gives me anxiety.

He is oot until next week so I don't feel rushed to listen to his babble. I wish my phone just transferred it to text. Lol

[demofea01]

I'd just delete it. IMO there is no excuse for him telling your child to lie to you so why listen to something that's likely to make you even unhappier with the situation?

[Muddled]

Have a friend listen to it. If it's not a straight up apology, she should delete it.

Or you delete it. Either he apologized, which would be lovely. Or he didn't, which doesn't change the fact that there is nothing to discuss, so what's the point. What are the chances of it being the former?

[pantsparty]

Is there any reason you didn't pass this off to your ex? Or does he not think this is a big deal?

Kudos to you for calling him out on it! But I get ya, I've avoided voicemails for days sometimes

[snickers]

Ugh, why waste your time listening to it? It will probably only make you more mad.