Why are moms such bitches?!

[adhdfashion]

:@ How could someone say something so nasty, untrue, and hurtful to her own daughter.
I don't even know you and that makes me want to stab a bitch.
If one day you have a daughter, name her after your H's mom.

[315bride]

Jun 19, 2012 19:13:55 GMT -5 adhdfashion said:

How could someone say something so nasty, untrue, and hurtful to her own daughter.
I don't even know you and that makes me want to stab a bitch.
If one day you have a daughter, name her after your H's mom.

This had me rolling.

[calips]

awful. no words. except i am sorry you have to deal with that. i can't imagine a mother saying that. i am a mother and would never.

it's her own issue. not yours.

xoxoxo

[Deleted]

Damn. I'm so sorry she treats you that way. I've gotten similar comments from my mom so I understand how damaging it is to your self-esteem. What an incredibly bitchy thing to say!

[Deleted]

What an absolutely shitty thing to say to your daughter. Every single pic I've seen of you is gorgeous. Don't let her get to you. Your mom is missing something inside herself if she has to tear her daughter down like that. I'm sorry. I hope you feel better this morning.

[niknik]

Isn't size 7 a regular size 4??? How can you even doubt yourself? Your mom might be your mom but on this issue, she's an idiot? I liked reply A. You are gorgeous. I'm a size 6 and haven't fit into a junior 7 in years and years.

[meadowlark]

Jun 20, 2012 10:26:47 GMT -5 cab1217 said:

Jun 20, 2012 6:50:14 GMT -5 @virginiablue said:

What an absolutely shitty thing to say to your daughter. Every single pic I've seen of you is gorgeous. Don't let her get to you. Your mom is missing something inside herself if she has to tear her daughter down like that. I'm sorry. I hope you feel better this morning.

Thanks, I do. She text me last night saying " I wish I didn't open my mouth", in response to my silence. I still didn't reply. She's looking for a reaction, and I am NOT going to give it to her this time.

That's the best answer! Don't react. Let her marinate in her own venom. What a terrible thing to say. To anyone. But especially her own daughter.

[Deleted]

Jun 20, 2012 10:26:47 GMT -5 cab1217 said:

Jun 20, 2012 6:50:14 GMT -5 @virginiablue said:

What an absolutely shitty thing to say to your daughter. Every single pic I've seen of you is gorgeous. Don't let her get to you. Your mom is missing something inside herself if she has to tear her daughter down like that. I'm sorry. I hope you feel better this morning.

Thanks, I do. She text me last night saying " I wish I didn't open my mouth", in response to my silence. I still didn't reply. She's looking for a reaction, and I am NOT going to give it to her this time.

Glad you are feeling better about the situation. Yep don't give her the satisfaction of letting her know how upset her comment made you. Hopefully she'll realize how much she fucked up.

[esynergy]

I would have gone all out and eaten a big piece of chocolate cake in front of her after that!

[runforrest]

I'm so sorry cab and Dawgs - that is just awful for a mother to say to her own daughter.

I would have a hard time biting my tongue if my mom ever made a comment to me like that.

[eightangryreindeer]

This is fucking awful, I'm sorry.

I have read that many women with ED's can trace their issues back to their relationship with their mother; this sort of commenting can be so dangerous.

And I really cannot believe the nerve of the implication that she gave this a lot of thought before doing it.

Fuck me, my mom can be a real pill but nothing like this, I feel lucky now.