I hate emotional dreams.

[lookingup]

You know, those dreams where you're in love with someone or something bad happens and you wake up feeling what you felt in the dream?

This morning I was dreaming that H and I were having a second wedding, like a vow renewal. I was in my wedding dress, we were in a huge church with lots of people and a big wedding party, and I knew it wasn't right. I hated it. I wanted to call it off, but I didn't want to hurt his feelings or embarrass him in front of so many people. And in the dream I was angry because I hadn't even planned any of the wedding and that's why I hated it- I felt like H was just forcing me into it even though he knew I was feeling unsure that I even wanted to be married to him anymore. But I finally called it off and told him I couldn't do it. I felt terrible.

And then when I woke up I felt terrible, and I still kind of do. Like I'm having those feelings of loss all over again. I know it's only temporary because of the dream, but it still hurts.

[heavenly]

I hate those dreams too and I even had a day dream where I was with an ex boyfriend and he got the dreaded news that he had to go away for military purpose for like a 5 year assignment and I had this deep sadness overcome to a point where my mom asked why I was so sad and it was just a dream.

Loss is hard. Being able to open up to another without the fear of loss and rejection is even harder.

[lookingup]

Jun 19, 2012 13:45:07 GMT -5 heavenly said:

I hate those dreams too and I even had a day dream where I was with an ex boyfriend and he got the dreaded news that he had to go away for military purpose for like a 5 year assignment and I had this deep sadness overcome to a point where my mom asked why I was so sad and it was just a dream.

Loss is hard. Being able to open up to another without the fear of loss and rejection is even harder.

This is true. It's hard to make yourself vulnerable again after being hurt so badly. I know I'm getting there though, and I fully believe that in the future I will be in a happy and healthy relationship. I'm just enjoying life in the meantime.

[pigeonmol]

I had a dream last week that my ex lost his job, the house he just bought got foreclosed on, his car got repoed and his phone turned off. He came running back to me to save him from his FI and I hid him. It took me two days to recover from that dream. I have also had sexual dreams about co workers and it takes weeks before I can look them in the eye!

[lookingup]

Jun 19, 2012 14:16:58 GMT -5 pigeonmol said:

I had a dream last week that my ex lost his job, the house he just bought got foreclosed on, his car got repoed and his phone turned off. He came running back to me to save him from his FI and I hid him. It took me two days to recover from that dream. I have also had sexual dreams about co workers and it takes weeks before I can look them in the eye!

I'm seriously laughing about the sexual dreams. Hahaha!

[pigeonmol]

Jun 19, 2012 14:23:07 GMT -5 lookingup said:

Jun 19, 2012 14:16:58 GMT -5 pigeonmol said:

I had a dream last week that my ex lost his job, the house he just bought got foreclosed on, his car got repoed and his phone turned off. He came running back to me to save him from his FI and I hid him. It took me two days to recover from that dream. I have also had sexual dreams about co workers and it takes weeks before I can look them in the eye!

I'm seriously laughing about the sexual dreams. Hahaha!

They really mess with your mind! After spending forty hours a week with someone you are bound to at some point.

[dakotadangerdog]

The other night I had a dream that I was RAGING at my mom over something she did, just SCREAMING at her, then I felt bad for freaking out so bed. The next day I was annoyed with her about something and I thought "man I should lay off, I've been really hard on her lately" then I was like WAIT A MINUTE no I haven't that was a DREAM!

[lookingup]

Jun 19, 2012 15:12:05 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

The other night I had a dream that I was RAGING at my mom over something she did, just SCREAMING at her, then I felt bad for freaking out so bed. The next day I was annoyed with her about something and I thought "man I should lay off, I've been really hard on her lately" then I was like WAIT A MINUTE no I haven't that was a DREAM!

This is so funny!

I once had a dream that I was totally in love with Joe Jonas. I'm not, nor have I ever been a fan of the Jonas Brothers. I've never even listened to them except in passing. When I woke up, sure enough I felt like I was head over heels with this random celebrity. How random!

[udscoobychick]

I dreamed that I was giving a BJ to an ex-FWB, and I woke up feeling SUPER guilty and stressed over how I would tell BF what had happened and how hurt he would be. I was VERY glad when I realized that it was just a dream!

[stephbfan]

Jun 19, 2012 15:41:54 GMT -5 lookingup said:

Jun 19, 2012 15:12:05 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

The other night I had a dream that I was RAGING at my mom over something she did, just SCREAMING at her, then I felt bad for freaking out so bed. The next day I was annoyed with her about something and I thought "man I should lay off, I've been really hard on her lately" then I was like WAIT A MINUTE no I haven't that was a DREAM!

This is so funny!

I once had a dream that I was totally in love with Joe Jonas. I'm not, nor have I ever been a fan of the Jonas Brothers. I've never even listened to them except in passing. When I woke up, sure enough I felt like I was head over heels with this random celebrity. How random!

I had a dream with James Franco!

[lookingup]

Jun 19, 2012 15:56:26 GMT -5 stephbfan said:

Jun 19, 2012 15:41:54 GMT -5 lookingup said:

This is so funny!

I once had a dream that I was totally in love with Joe Jonas. I'm not, nor have I ever been a fan of the Jonas Brothers. I've never even listened to them except in passing. When I woke up, sure enough I felt like I was head over heels with this random celebrity. How random!

I had a dream with James Franco!

I've had a dream about him, too! That dream actually put him in my Top 5 for a while.

[wrathofkuus]

I hate those emotional dreams. I had a dream recently that I told and ex-boyfriend that I missed him, and in the dream I really felt it. FFS, I haven't dated anyone but Mr. Kuus since the 90s, and I wasn't even sad to see this boyfriend go back when I broke up with him. Get it together, subconscious!

[stephbfan]

Jun 19, 2012 16:01:11 GMT -5 lookingup said:

Jun 19, 2012 15:56:26 GMT -5 stephbfan said:

I had a dream with James Franco!

I've had a dream about him, too! That dream actually put him in my Top 5 for a while.

That happened to me too. He was even on my radar before. Now I drool every time I see him lol.