Can someone remind me

[pigeonmol]

Why dating has to be such a game? The date last night was awesome. Time flew by so quickly. We spent three hours just talking at the restaurant. After we noticed the stink eye we were getting from the waitress, we went over to his place and watched Drive (mmm Ryan Gosling day, I watched crazy stupid love earlier that day) It was a pretty good movie, and yes we watched every moment of it! There were moments that had me gripping his leg or hand so good going there After the movie we did kiss and then he decided to tickle me. OMG I am so frickin ticklish! I tried to contain it, but the honking laughs came out! Well at that point it was almost midnight and our date was reaching hour six! It was strange and I cant remember exactly how he said it, but he said it was getting late and I should probably be getting home.

Now I am try as hard as I can to not over analyze the date. And before I left he said I should order from the store he delivers for so I could make him deliver to me! Well I did it and wrote instructions just like he said and they sent someone else. I don't know if I should send him a message or just play it off as nothing. I kinda wanted to give him a better tip that anything anyone else could.( get your minds off the porn people! a kiss!)

Anyway, we don't have another date set up at this point. He did say he would like to do it again. I haven't put all my eggs in one basket yet, I have a date with a guy tomorrow and a different one Friday. Its not the end of the world if it doesn't work out, it just would be nice if it does.

[bullygirl979]

I am trying not to be pearl clutchy but how well do you know this guy? It sounded from your PP that you met him online a week ago, no? Sorry, OP, but if this is the case I have to say that I wouldn't have gone over his house on a first date. Nor would I have ordered something from his store (i.e. provided him my address). Sorry, maybe I am being way too uptight with this but I just want you to be careful.

Howevah...to answer your question. Why not just send him a text tomorrow and say "I had a great time on Monday. If you want to get together again, let me know".

[doriswe]

I agree with everything Bully said!

[Deleted]

Bully for the win! Also I think him tickling you was an attempt to see how far you would go physically and when it became obvious you weren't going to sleep with him he decided to call it a night.

Also I wouldn't have ordered from his store, especially not the day after when you basically saw him like 12 hours ago.

I'd leave this one be.

[bullygirl979]

Jun 19, 2012 14:28:43 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Bully for the win! Also I think him tickling you was an attempt to see how far you would go physically and when it became obvious you weren't going to sleep with him he decided to call it a night.

Haha! I feel like my suggestion for the text should be my siggy today.

And ITA about the tickling. That would have made me uncomfortable too but I felt to "finger shaking" to say that as well. So I stuck with the whole alone in the apartment/providing infomation thing.

[missbetty1]

I TOTALLY agree with bully and pdx!!! I was thinking the same EXACT same thing didn't you just meet him online a week ago?!

[pigeonmol]

Jun 19, 2012 14:21:46 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

I am trying not to be pearl clutchy but how well do you know this guy? It sounded from your PP that you met him online a week ago, no? Sorry, OP, but if this is the case I have to say that I wouldn't have gone over his house on a first date. Nor would I have ordered something from his store (i.e. provided him my address). Sorry, maybe I am being way too uptight with this but I just want you to be careful.

Howevah...to answer your question. Why not just send him a text tomorrow and say "I had a great time on Monday. If you want to get together again, let me know".

I do agree that I can be a bit too trusting. I didn't really put much thought into not going to his place and now that I think about it, that was stupid. I am lucky nothing bad happened. As far as delivering to my house. Well we established that he had delivered there several times before. The shop is just down the street and my family has them deliver at least once a week. As soon as I told him the last name, he asked if that was my family. We tip very well and always have a large order, we kinda stick out.

But thank you for your concern, I realize I should have been less trusting.

[Deleted]

I don't know what other people will think but if a guy invites you over to his place on the 1st date, he expects to get laid. And I am pretty sure he was testing the water when he started to tickle you. Since nothing happened, he asked you to leave. I wouldn't be surprised if you never hear from him again.

[Deleted]

Jun 19, 2012 15:19:54 GMT -5 @landobiscuit said:

I don't know what other people will think but if a guy invites you over to his place on the 1st date, he expects to get laid. And I am pretty sure he was testing the water when he started to tickle you. Since nothing happened, he asked you to leave. I wouldn't be surprised if you never hear from him again.

:Y:

[Deleted]

You spent 6 hours together on a first date and expected him to come over again today? Give the guy some space.

[lookingup]

Jun 19, 2012 15:44:27 GMT -5 doglove said:

You spent 6 hours together on a first date and expected him to come over again today? Give the guy some space.

I have to agree with this. A think a text saying, "I had a great time last night, we should do it again soon," would have sufficed. But ordering from his work to get him to deliver to you today seems really needy. If you still haven't heard from him, maybe send him a text tomorrow saying that you had a great time and would like to get together again. Leave the ball in his court.

[pigeonmol]

Jun 19, 2012 15:50:35 GMT -5 lookingup said:

Jun 19, 2012 15:44:27 GMT -5 doglove said:

You spent 6 hours together on a first date and expected him to come over again today? Give the guy some space.

I have to agree with this. A think a text saying, "I had a great time last night, we should do it again soon," would have sufficed. But ordering from his work to get him to deliver to you today seems really needy. If you still haven't heard from him, maybe send him a text tomorrow saying that you had a great time and would like to get together again. Leave the ball in his court.

In no way did I want to seem needy.It in fact has been crossing my mind how it would feel knowing there was a possibility he would be delivering to us once in awhile. I only did it since it was suggested by him. I haven't brought it up in the text convo we are now having. He contacted me, I was just going to wait to contact him tomorrow.

[lookingup]

Jun 19, 2012 16:14:23 GMT -5 pigeonmol said:

Jun 19, 2012 15:50:35 GMT -5 lookingup said:

I have to agree with this. A think a text saying, "I had a great time last night, we should do it again soon," would have sufficed. But ordering from his work to get him to deliver to you today seems really needy. If you still haven't heard from him, maybe send him a text tomorrow saying that you had a great time and would like to get together again. Leave the ball in his court.

In no way did I want to seem needy.It in fact has been crossing my mind how it would feel knowing there was a possibility he would be delivering to us once in awhile. I only did it since it was suggested by him. I haven't brought it up in the text convo we are now having. He contacted me, I was just going to wait to contact him tomorrow.

How is the conversation going?

[pigeonmol]

good, more free flow friendly convo. Talking about the movie last night, some of the deliveries he has done today. The history homework I am doing. He likes ancient Egypt and the it the chapter I am on now.