Let's swing...shall we?

[musiclover]

So I mentioned in Laurack's making friend's thread that if I were into swinging, that I totally know the couple I would choose, lol.  In your mind, do you have this couple established already?

I am 99% sure I would never be comfortable enough to do that, but everyone can fantasize right?

Sometimes the wife is pretty and the husband is not, or vice versa, well my "couple" is well matched.  I wonder if it is just me who even thinks of these things?

[charlielove]

I'm flattered.

[Faevantastic]

Lol! I would totally prefer people I don't know.

[charlielove]

To answer the question though, I don't know any couples in our life that I would even THINK about doing this with. Also, I'm a prude so this would just never happen on any level.

[musiclover]

Aug 28, 2013 11:22:28 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

Not anyone we hang out with now, lol. H used to be in a band with this guy who has a pretty hot wife. He's not bad either. I guess I would choose them. We saw them in Target a few weeks ago.

I bet they were buying jock itch cream and then it ruined your fantasy?
lol.

[musiclover]

Aug 28, 2013 11:22:28 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

Not anyone we hang out with now, lol. H used to be in a band with this guy who has a pretty hot wife. He's not bad either. I guess I would choose them. We saw them in Target a few weeks ago.

eta: I would probably just want to have sex with the wife, though. Or like a big orgy, maybe. OMG why are you making me think about this? lol

hahahahahaha. This made me LOL.

Where are my fellow dirty birds? @pcloadletter orriskitten
Who else will admit to having a swinging couple on deck in their mind? <)

[rainbowchip]

DH and I have talked about each others friends that we would do it with but I don't think there's a couple we would both agree on. So in our case it would be cheating, not swinging.

[claralou]

Aug 28, 2013 11:21:22 GMT -5 charlielove said:

To answer the question though, I don't know any couples in our life that I would even THINK about doing this with. Also, I'm a prude so this would just never happen on any level.

This. Also, I know WAY too much about my friends' husbands to ever find them attractive. Ever. Even if I thought they were attractive to begin with, I certainly don't now. And while I wish I were more adventurous sometimes, I can't say I know any women I'd wanna get dirty with, despite having a lot of genuinely hot friends. 

I've never felt as boring in my life as I do in this thread. 

[orriskitten]

Aug 28, 2013 11:35:26 GMT -5 musiclover said:

Aug 28, 2013 11:22:28 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

Not anyone we hang out with now, lol. H used to be in a band with this guy who has a pretty hot wife. He's not bad either. I guess I would choose them. We saw them in Target a few weeks ago.

eta: I would probably just want to have sex with the wife, though. Or like a big orgy, maybe. OMG why are you making me think about this? lol

hahahahahaha. This made me LOL.

Where are my fellow dirty birds? @pcloadletter orriskitten
Who else will admit to having a swinging couple on deck in their mind? <)

Oho dirty bird here!

I don't have a couple in mind that I actually know (celebrities don't count) but I know of a few parties I'd want to go to again...

[orriskitten]

Do neighbors count? I don't actually know them beyond saying hi in the elevator. He looks like a skinnier, hot Fabio which is not my type, but the girl is a beautiful curvy latina. They are both well over 6' and I have such a crush on them!

[mumegs]

I could never actually do this but I feel like if we did it would have to be with people we weren't friends with, I feel like it would be too awkward seeing them later!

[laurack]

I think it would have to be with strangers because it would ruin any friendship with forever weirdness!

[charlielove]

Aug 28, 2013 12:38:55 GMT -5 @chelsmonster said:

How would someone even go about this? "Um, hey friend...I would really like to sleep with your husband! But don't worry, it's ok, you can sleep with mine!" I mean...no thanks lol.

Right? You're like "Hey, let's meet at Chili's, have some chips and salsa, and then "swing" by our house ?" And then how does a friendship continue from there? I just don't get it.

[laurack]

I'm trying to think of a celeb couple for this and I'm coming up blank...

[creamsiclechica]

I couldn't. I know some guy friends of ours that are very attractive, but either I have known them my whole life and I have the brother vibe, or they're Matt's friends and I know too much about them. And I'm way too jealous. So there's literally no way someone is touching my man. I'm the cutta bitch sort. I ruined the fantasy lol

[jfh]

Question: Would I be sleeping with the wife too, or is it just that we'd swap spouses temporarily?

[creamsiclechica]

Aug 28, 2013 12:46:27 GMT -5 jfh said:

Question: Would I be sleeping with the wife too, or is it just that we'd swap spouses temporarily?

This is a good question.

[bigapple]

I'm not sure whom I'd pick. I'm turned on by traditionally attractive men and totally butch women, so that would be a tough couple to find.

I've been asked to be the "special guest" by several couples but have never accepted. I was never sure whether to be flattered or weirded out by that.

[musiclover]

Aug 28, 2013 12:45:00 GMT -5 @chelsmonster said:

Aug 28, 2013 12:40:48 GMT -5 charlielove said:

Right? You're like "Hey, let's meet at Chili's, have some chips and salsa, and then "swing" by our house ?" And then how does a friendship continue from there? I just don't get it.

Haha yes, "Your husband sure was great in the sack! Was my husband's penis adequate for you? See you tomorrow at Tommy's soccer game, it's my turn to bring snack! I'm making brownies! Don't forget your undies that you left on the floor before you leave!"

I feel like this response wins Proboards today, hahahahaha :Y:
Like I said, I could NEVER, but it's just one of those silly things that I think about in theory.

[jfh]

Aug 28, 2013 13:30:17 GMT -5 @therealmc said:

Aug 28, 2013 13:10:35 GMT -5 musiclover said:

I feel like this response wins Proboards today, hahahahaha
Like I said, I could NEVER, but it's just one of those silly things that I think about in theory.

I feel like you are propositioning all of us.

Totally! I could NEVER....but let's just say I could....who would want to??

Nice try Musiclover.

[tuck]

I have a couple in mind. But, I would get the wife and DH would get the husband. Separate rooms, closed doors. I wouldn't want to know what goes on in the other room.

(I've mentioned DH is bi, right?)

[laurack]

I'd probably not be able to allow H to have sex with the woman, nor would I want to have sex with the man. Therefore I guess the only acceptable possible scenario is me + a hot girl, hubby watches but nothing else.

[kdrake8]

Aug 28, 2013 12:45:00 GMT -5 @chelsmonster said:

Aug 28, 2013 12:40:48 GMT -5 charlielove said:

Right? You're like "Hey, let's meet at Chili's, have some chips and salsa, and then "swing" by our house ?" And then how does a friendship continue from there? I just don't get it.

Haha yes, "Your husband sure was great in the sack! Was my husband's penis adequate for you? See you tomorrow at Tommy's soccer game, it's my turn to bring snack! I'm making brownies! Don't forget your undies that you left on the floor before you leave!"

omg I am literally dying. This is just what I needed today.

[creamsiclechica]

I am also lol-ing trying to think of Matt actually agreeing to sleep with another man. He's not homophobic by any means, but I can't see him buying it.

But, when asked, spooning another man on deployment on a frozen mountaintop doesn't count for anything

[musiclover]

Aug 28, 2013 12:46:27 GMT -5 jfh said:

Question: Would I be sleeping with the wife too, or is it just that we'd swap spouses temporarily?

Not sure how all of that works, anyone know?
hahahahaha

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Aug 28, 2013 14:52:19 GMT -5 musiclover said:

Aug 28, 2013 12:46:27 GMT -5 jfh said:

Question: Would I be sleeping with the wife too, or is it just that we'd swap spouses temporarily?

Not sure how all of that works, anyone know?
hahahahaha

I would imagine its a swapping spouse situation?!
And yes, I have a couple in mind for this scenario

[orriskitten]

Aug 28, 2013 14:52:19 GMT -5 musiclover said:

Aug 28, 2013 12:46:27 GMT -5 jfh said:

Question: Would I be sleeping with the wife too, or is it just that we'd swap spouses temporarily?

Not sure how all of that works, anyone know?
hahahahaha

Depends who and where you are.

All play is fair game!

Oh, and my celeb couple is Paul Bettany and Jennifer Connolley. I've loved Paul Bettany for so long and I just don't get it, but there it is!

[wildcatprincess]

I asked DH if he'd be interested in swinging when we were older and the kids were grown and he was like WTH? lol. I'm not sure I'd be able to do it, but in theory it intrigues me. I know who I'd choose, but the girl is fug so DH would never go for it. Plus I'm pretty sure the dude would be his LAST choice for me to sleep with

[cat19]

Not swinging, but I had a dream last night that we found a "special friend" to play with last night...   I have not told DH about this dream.  It was rather detailed - and apparenly we put an ad out on Craigslist?!?