I just did a mitzvah!

[cat19]

I just love that phrase.  It's the best.

But really, I did.  My mother's next door neighbor is the girl I grew up with - she bought the house from her parents.  She's pregnant and due in October, so I private messaged her as I do most of my pregnant friends to non-judgmentally ask if they are going to BF just so I can share some resources that helped me. 

So we were talking and apparently she's getting a repeat c and is getting judged by others for not trying a VBAC.  So I told her "I really think it's more important that you feel safe and comfortable then what anyone else thinks. As long as you know your doctor is going to take the best care of you possible that is the most important thing!"  And based off of her response I don't think anyone has supported her so simply.  And I think I made her happy.  So now I'm happy. 

Yeay for good deeds!

[shevacc]

Go Cat! And...I do love that word, had no idea it meant good deed

[thedahliharpa]

That's great It's weird though because most people thought I was a reckless freak for making the other choice.

[cat19]

Aug 28, 2013 22:10:51 GMT -5 thedahliharpa said:

That's great It's weird though because most people thought I was a reckless freak for making the other choice.

From what I've seen on her feed, she's friends with a lot of people with very strong opinions.  And many of them are slightly crunchy (like me) but very judgmental (unlike me) and they think she doesn't know her own mind.