In honor of my DH's Birthday..

[usedtobebear]

I just took myself on a mini shopping spree and bought some new clothes, I think this might turn into a tradition going forward on 6/20. Yippee!

He's also texted me a few things about our house and I haven't even mentioned his B-day, and don't plan to. I'm just reminiscing what a pain in the ass he's been all these years on his B-day. My family would always try and make it special and try and do something and he was always so negative and didn't like the attention so would come off acting like a douche. I'm feeling feisty today, he can spend his birthday alone for all I care! I'm going to yoga and then stopping at the liquor store for some wine to celebrate my new life!

[liubotflittyfud]

Yay! Congrats! Have fun

[explorer2001]

Have fun!

[usedtobebear]

Jun 20, 2012 17:15:53 GMT -5 jellymankelly said:

Have a great night! In honor of his birthday, I give you permission to drop the "D" from DH.

Also, my XH was also a total jerk about my family doting on him. Lavish birthdays and Christmases and all he ever did was act like a jerk and complain. There's no pleasing some people.

No kidding, I do need to drop them, I'm so used to using DH that I forgot, maybe I should start saying stbx. I will practice :Y:

[explorer2001]

Jun 20, 2012 17:22:01 GMT -5 usedtobebear said:

Jun 20, 2012 17:15:53 GMT -5 jellymankelly said:

Have a great night! In honor of his birthday, I give you permission to drop the "D" from DH.

Also, my XH was also a total jerk about my family doting on him. Lavish birthdays and Christmases and all he ever did was act like a jerk and complain. There's no pleasing some people.

No kidding, I do need to drop them, I'm so used to using DH that I forgot, maybe I should start saying stbx. I will practice

There was a discuson a while back on MM that DH could be either dear or damn depending on circumstance. Still I encouragethe use of STBX and exH. It feels better.

[cemacmil]

Jun 20, 2012 17:15:53 GMT -5 jellymankelly said:

Have a great night! In honor of his birthday, I give you permission to drop the "D" from DH.

Also, my XH was also a total jerk about my family doting on him. Lavish birthdays and Christmases and all he ever did was act like a jerk and complain. There's no pleasing some people.

I swear there must be a DB guidebook!!! Same in my fam with XH.