“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
I'm really not a fan of colored glasses. I like colors on the stem (or whatever it's called). I have a pair with turquoise on the sides, but not framing my face.
One time I got green glasses when I was like 14 and I thought I would love them forevar but after like 2 weeks I hated them even though I love green and now I have black/white glasses for like the past 3 years and I still love them sooooo....
My all important and decision making vote is black.
I'm 100% on the black. Plus, I have a similar pair in black tortoiseshell. That seems to diminish the harshness, but I'm a few shades darker than you.
Thing is, there's nothing subtle about those frames, so it's not like another color is going to magically blend in to your face. I'm imagining that grape color looking super bright in the sunlight. I'd be like, "whoa, back up glasses girl." Lol.