If flies didn't exist, charlielove would be sharing that wine with you.
If I hadn't moved to DC with my ex, I wouldn't have met DH. If DH hadn't seen me proudly flashing my arsenal of gang signs to MS-13 members at a street pizza place at 3AM, he wouldn't have known what a talented young woman he was about to fall in love with. If I hadn't befriended a smashed girl in a bar bathroom line, I wouldn't have gotten my first "real" job.
If my baby slept through the fucking night, I wouldn't be awake to respond right now.
Post by muppetinma on Sept 12, 2013 7:12:59 GMT -5
If my hormones were in check almost 12 years ago, I wouldn't have met DH.
If I hadn't been suckered into carpooling 19 years ago, I wouldn't have started in the youth theater program that got me to where I am today. (Or, rather, where I was two years ago)
If pull and pray actually worked, I wouldn't be here today. Neither would my brothers or my sister.
If I hadn't followed my HS BF to the same college, i never would have met H.
(he wasn't the only reason I chose that college, but he was a factor in deciding. And three weeks in we broke up. H was his suitemate at the time. They were suitemates/roommmates through 4 years of college, and we all still keep in touch.)
If I hadn't followed my HS BF to the same college, i never would have met H.
(he wasn't the only reason I chose that college, but he was a factor in deciding. And three weeks in we broke up. H was his suitemate at the time. They were suitemates/roommmates through 4 years of college, and we all still keep in touch.)
This is mine, except a college nearby. And I went for my major, but it was conveniently closer to him.
No need to feel sorry clara Reach out all that you need to.
For the game: If I hadn't met H I would probably be a resident doctor right now. I was prepping for my MCAT and starting to apply when we met and decided on a different course of life.
If I hadn't followed my HS BF to the same college, i never would have met H.
(he wasn't the only reason I chose that college, but he was a factor in deciding. And three weeks in we broke up. H was his suitemate at the time. They were suitemates/roommmates through 4 years of college, and we all still keep in touch.)
This is (sorta) me too! I had always wanted to go to the school I chose, but when offered the chance to start co-op after 4 months or 8 months I chose 8 because that was the same stream as my then BF. Turns out that just gave me more time to fall for now H.
Post by orriskitten on Sept 12, 2013 8:41:33 GMT -5
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I hope today is a good day for you. Never feel bad for letting it out!
Mine:
If my first hs boyfriend wasn't into d&d I would never have met DH.
If a friend I met through the website xbf was on didn't have a crush on me and DH, I'd probably not be married to anyone. Definitely wouldn't have kids!
If 9/11 hadn't happened, I probably would've been a flight attendant. I had just graduated college and was looking for a way to travel cheaply. I had interviews with three airlines lined up in mid-September, which were obviously cancelled. So I became a lawyer.
Post by formerlyllizzyb on Sept 12, 2013 12:07:57 GMT -5
I'm sorry claralou. We know that mourning a loss doesn't mean you're not happy with your life as it is now.
If I had married a previous long term boyfriend we would be divorced. And I am so, so against divorce due to my faith, but I can say with certainty I know I would have left him.
If I hadn't become friends with a horrible girl who ended up smashing my head into the concrete, I wouldn't have met my husband.
That girl was psycho!
Umm, story?!?!
She was my best friend who was really possessive and controlling. I picked her up from work one day and told her I was going to a show to see our friends band with an old mutual friend of ours, that she was no longer friends with. She freaked out and stood there in the parking lot and called her mom to tell her how awful I was. I took the phone and told her mom to please calm her down so I could take her home and that we could discuss it later, rather then discussing it in a mall parking lot at 9:30pm, and to tell her daughter to just let me take her home since she was refusing to get in my car. Her Mom was also psycho and just kept asking me why I'd associate with said friend, making matters worse. I got annoyed and went to hand her phone back which she didnt see because she was freaking out, so I threw her phone on the ground and said "Fine! Have fun standing here alone in a parking lot" and began walking to my car. Next thing I knew she tackled me from behind, I fell to the ground and my chin bounced off the concrete, she was straddled on top of me with my hair in her hands slamming my head back into the concrete repeatedly. Two guys in a truck saw me getting my ass beat and jumped out to pull her off me. She was insane and looked at me and said "Byeeee!" with this creepy ass voice. That was the end of that!
She had introduced me to her boyfriends roommate a couple months before then, and that guy was Bob. So if it weren't for me knowing her, him and I would have never met.