Post by partiallysunny on Sept 16, 2013 7:36:29 GMT -5
My tub surround installation was a disaster. The adhesive didn't hold the panels like they should have. H and I were stuck in the bathtub, arms and legs everywhere, for over half an hour.
And not in the good way.
I'm still not sure if it's stuck to the wall. I ended up rigging a piece of wood, the old shower rod, and a door stop to keep the panels on the wall when we finally left last night.
I'm just hoping the panels aren't laying on the bathroom floor in pieces when I get there after work.
I got three hours of sleep last night and I feel like a fat cow today because my period is due in a few days. It's going to be a wonderful day.
Post by cuddlyevil on Sept 16, 2013 8:02:01 GMT -5
H tried giving me the business about FB last night. He kept syaing "you've been on your phone every time you leave the room tonight". Uh, no and besides you were upstairs on the can and then took a nap how in the hell would you know what I was doing and when?
Worse, my stomach was all messed up after lunch yesterday and I felt like crap. But I still managed to finish H's laundry for him, do laundry for the kids, feed the kids, and get the bathed. But, I spent all night on my phone.
Oooo...that was a little angrier than I intended. Sorry.
I'm going to kill H if he doesn't learn to hurry the eff up. Saturday morning I asked him to get up with A so I could stay in bed a little longer since she was up all night. He farted around for almost 1/2 an hour while she crawled all over me. Thanks dude, I'm up now.
Then, we're trying to leave and I ask him to get 100% ready (he was ready, and was on his computer) and get the dogs in the car so that I can grab the sleeping baby and transport her to her car seat. 15 minutes later he is making himself a coffee.
Yesterday, we're prepping to demo the kitchen. I have a friend from work coming over to help in one hour. H spend 25 minutes cleaning out the junk drawer. JUST DUMP IT IN THE FUCKING BOX AND MOVE ON!
This morning, I ask him to wake A up in 5 minutes and get her dressed while I finish getting hers and my stuff ready for the day. 15 minutes later she is up, but they are reading and she is not dressed. I then had to wait for him to dress her, which was exactly what I was trying to avoid.
Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggghhhh! Sorry, I needed to get all that out.
Post by starrieskies on Sept 16, 2013 8:58:35 GMT -5
I slept like shit last night. I don't want to go to work today...
I came to the realization that I have only used 3 of my 10 vacation days for the year, and I don't think I'll have an opportunity to use much more (if any) this year. I find this annoying.
The only reason I finished his laundry was because I needed to do the kids clothes. And he didn't seem to have any real impetus to finish his stuff (even though he flipped out on me when I said that I needed to do the kid's laundry "But, what about my stuff?? I have to work tomorrow?").
After we got home from grocery shopping/soccer? He went upstairs and sat on the can, then laid down and took a nap.
I slept like shit last night. I don't want to go to work today...
I came to the realization that I have only used 3 of my 10 vacation days for the year, and I don't think I'll have an opportunity to use much more (if any) this year. I find this annoying.
The only reason I finished his laundry was because I needed to do the kids clothes. And he didn't seem to have any real impetus to finish his stuff (even though he flipped out on me when I said that I needed to do the kid's laundry "But, what about my stuff?? I have to work tomorrow?").
After we got home from grocery shopping/soccer? He went upstairs and sat on the can, then laid down and took a nap.
This makes me angry.
For you and me. Why does he get to nap when he has laundry to do! And I want a nap!
I slept like shit last night. I don't want to go to work today...
I came to the realization that I have only used 3 of my 10 vacation days for the year, and I don't think I'll have an opportunity to use much more (if any) this year. I find this annoying.
The only reason I finished his laundry was because I needed to do the kids clothes. And he didn't seem to have any real impetus to finish his stuff (even though he flipped out on me when I said that I needed to do the kid's laundry "But, what about my stuff?? I have to work tomorrow?").
After we got home from grocery shopping/soccer? He went upstairs and sat on the can, then laid down and took a nap.
This makes me angry.
For you and me. Why does he get to nap when he has laundry to do! And I want a nap!
To be fair to him, he had to work at 5 am yesterday. But that doesn't mean he gets to nap and freak out on me because I need to keep doing things around the house thus putting his stuff on hold.
I slept like shit last night. I don't want to go to work today...
I came to the realization that I have only used 3 of my 10 vacation days for the year, and I don't think I'll have an opportunity to use much more (if any) this year. I find this annoying.
cuddlyevil the offer to kick him (maybe just in the shins) still stands. I'm sorry he acted life that and I'd be frustrated too.
partiallysunny, you need a nap, advil, and a massage. I how you can get at least two of them today.
I'm tired because I waited until something ridiculous like 10pm to start cooking foods that I could take with me for lunch this week and with cleanup didn't finish until midnight. And now I have to hurry to get ready because I woke up to being cuddled by two cats and it was hard to get up.
Post by cuddlyevil on Sept 16, 2013 10:06:16 GMT -5
Thanks Tiramasu. I mentioned a tiny bit about yesterday to my boss and she said "It really sounds like he's selfish and that nothing is going to change. I think you need to decide what you're going to do.". When I told her I think I have decided but I'm not sure if I can afford it just yet she said "Well, I don't think you should torture yourself or the kids.". It's why I love her, she's tough love but she's supportive. Therapy tonight.
For you and me. Why does he get to nap when he has laundry to do! And I want a nap!
To be fair to him, he had to work at 5 am yesterday. But that doesn't mean he gets to nap and freak out on me because I need to keep doing things around the house thus putting his stuff on hold.
Did he say "honey, I'm tired from work today. I'm going to take a little nap." Or are you making excuses for him?
Post by cuddlyevil on Sept 16, 2013 10:11:33 GMT -5
He didn't say it. Didn't even tell me he was going to lay down, but when I went upstairs to get something he said "I just need to rest for a bit". That was after, he was all "But, I work tomorrow!!" about his laundry. He went upstairs, changed into comfy clothes, sat on the can then laid down.
I'm going to kill H if he doesn't learn to hurry the eff up. Saturday morning I asked him to get up with A so I could stay in bed a little longer since she was up all night. He farted around for almost 1/2 an hour while she crawled all over me. Thanks dude, I'm up now.
Then, we're trying to leave and I ask him to get 100% ready (he was ready, and was on his computer) and get the dogs in the car so that I can grab the sleeping baby and transport her to her car seat. 15 minutes later he is making himself a coffee.
Yesterday, we're prepping to demo the kitchen. I have a friend from work coming over to help in one hour. H spend 25 minutes cleaning out the junk drawer. JUST DUMP IT IN THE FUCKING BOX AND MOVE ON!
This morning, I ask him to wake A up in 5 minutes and get her dressed while I finish getting hers and my stuff ready for the day. 15 minutes later she is up, but they are reading and she is not dressed. I then had to wait for him to dress her, which was exactly what I was trying to avoid.
Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggghhhh! Sorry, I needed to get all that out.
I slept like shit last night. I don't want to go to work today...
I came to the realization that I have only used 3 of my 10 vacation days for the year, and I don't think I'll have an opportunity to use much more (if any) this year. I find this annoying.
Do they roll over?
If not, you'd better use them all!
No, they don't roll over. Unfortunately, we're in our peak busy season right now trying to get everything done before the real rain starts, and I have a big project that I do annually that I really need to get started on. It won't be wrapped up until mid November, and after that everyone else starts taking time off for the Holidays. I don't really have anyone to "cover" for me in my current position, so it makes it more difficult. Last year I took time off the first week of November, and that was a nightmare.
My mom wants us to all go as a family to Nevada to stay with our family down there for Thanksgiving. I'm not sure if I can swing that, but maybe.
My Monday is actually pretty good. I have a mountain of paperwork, but it's not too bad. Hope to hear from the body shop and pick up my car either tonight after work, or tomorrow morning. And got my check from the insurance company.
I got a phone request for an employee packet this morning, and after I got his address the dude proceeded to tell me three terrible jokes. I want him to call me every Monday morning.
No, they don't roll over. Unfortunately, we're in our peak busy season right now trying to get everything done before the real rain starts, and I have a big project that I do annually that I really need to get started on. It won't be wrapped up until mid November, and after that everyone else starts taking time off for the Holidays. I don't really have anyone to "cover" for me in my current position, so it makes it more difficult. Last year I took time off the first week of November, and that was a nightmare.
My mom wants us to all go as a family to Nevada to stay with our family down there for Thanksgiving. I'm not sure if I can swing that, but maybe.
If nothing else, take every other Friday off for a while. You've earned this time.
I went to see my parents over the weekend. It's such a relief to be home.
I will also kick your H cuddlyevil. You sound like you' doing well though and I'm glad you have support IRL and therapy too.
I am really hungry and all I want is pizza. Is it too early for pizza? I think I need some pizza.
Never to early for pizza. Haven't you ever had pizza for breakfast?
I love breakfast pizza but it is usually leftovers from the night before. I am currently pizza-less and it somehow feels different to have pizza delivered before 11am.
Never to early for pizza. Haven't you ever had pizza for breakfast?
I love breakfast pizza but it is usually leftovers from the night before. I am currently pizza-less and it somehow feels different to have pizza delivered before 11am.
If toy can find a pizza place that opens that early, you're in business.
Plus, you're in school. This is what you're suppose to do.
I had a really random weekend. I hung out with my neighbors for most of it. They are really awesome. Saturday night though was insane. We live in sort of brownstones and everyone has a little porch and stoop. While hanging out on my neighbors drinking beer we learned that the other neighbor was having an underwear party.
Slowly as the party started we saw tons of people go up in clothes only to come out to get beer on the porch in their underwear or come out to smoke. It was really funny.
Cuddlyevil. I think I would have left his laundry to molder in the machine.
Starrie If you are super busy this season could you maybe take partial half days. You deserve a vacation and a break too.