So a childhood friend is getting married this fall. I ran into her at her sister's wedding last month and she said they were planning a very small, family-only wedding. Okay, so I don't expect to be invited, which is just fine.
Then last night I got invited to her secret FB group, called "John and Susie 2013". This is what it says:
So as many of you know, we are gettin hitched! We are super stoked for this new season and wanted to include you all in the news It was really on our hearts to do a small and intimate wedding, this October, with our immediate families and a small bunch that we are living daily life with.
The down side is there are so many people we love that have played key roles in our lives over the years, that it has been a very tough decision to keep it small. So it was very important to us that we let as many of you know as possible about this new chapter of our lives. Because our guest list is so small, we wanted to send a general announcement out to whoever of you would like to receive one and would greatly treasure your prayers and thoughts towards us on our day.
We love and value each one of you and know that the future holds some pretty dang exciting stuff for all of us! This is only the beginning! Thank you for your support and understanding, and don't hesitate to private message either of us your address and we'll pop a little note in the mail for ya. You will all be with us in spirit!
So, I guess I just added to a secret group to inform me I'm not invited to the wedding. What the ever-loving heck?!
Eh, it's kind of weird but I get what they are doing. They want people to know but they really want a small wedding. I would just write back "good luck!" and leave it at that.
Wait, so you have to ask to get a wedding announcement? What a weird thing to do. This is life these days, where people can't even pause to compile a list of who they want to send announcements to, so they just post it on FB and say: if you want one, YOU do the work and email me your address.
$20 says that there will be a follow-up post to let you know where they registered. You know, in case you felt like your prayers and thoughts just weren't enough to help them celebrate.
The best part is some people, clearly lacking reading comprehension, are responding on the wall with, "Wohoo! I can't wait to be there!". And one savvy person posted, "So wait... Is this a secret group to tell me I'm not invited?", to which a lot of people are basically saying, "yeah wtf?!" I feel like it's making the whole thing even more awkward than it ever had to be!
The best part is some people, clearly lacking reading comprehension, are responding on the wall with, "Wohoo! I can't wait to be there!". And one savvy person posted, "So wait... Is this a secret group to tell me I'm not invited?", to which a lot of people are basically saying, "yeah wtf?!" I feel like it's making the whole thing even more awkward than it ever had to be!
Sorry, but I also laughed out loud when I read that. I get where they're coming from....but it's a little odd to be grouped into a secret 'you're not invited' group.
My cousin actually 'Liked' her own online wedding registry website on FB. It was an obvious message of 'here's where I'm registered if you're wondering.' to EVERYONE on her friends list. I wasn't invited to that wedding, nor did I send her a gift.
are you the one savvy person or are you just sitting back and laughing?
I totally wanted to say it, but refrained. I'm just mean enough to make fun of them on the internet.
I actually like this person, and I don't think they're intending to fish for gifts. She's just young and apparently a bit clueless about how her FB group would appear.
Its all about getting a gift. "hey you. Can't invite you, but want you to know we are getting married! But we wanted to invite.. We spent many sleepless nights over it. But feel free to pray for us and send a gift."
Give me a break. They could have announced it after. this is dumb
I don't know why they have to address all the people who aren't going to get an invite. If you're not invited, you're not invited. Why would people take that personally? Just because you know someone, doesn't mean you're going to be invited to their wedding. Some people have small intimate weddings, it's nothing new.