s/o Being positive about your SO

[louietunes]

The comments on Bridey's post about presenting YH in a positive light made me want to have a big H lovefest.

Say something positive about YH/SO!

[charitylynne79]

He cooks.

[louietunes]

As I've said before, he has the patience of a saint. He's so laid back and mellow, and I'm...not. He balances me perfectly and he's always kind, funny, and fun to be around. He can turn a bad day around just be looking at me.

I really want to play hooky from work, go back home, and snuggle the hell out of him right now.

[lizardesque]

He is the smartest person I know.

[latte]

He is really good at golfing.

He does small things that make me happy, like randomly make coffee so I don't have to, leave little notes to find when I wake up in the morning, stuff like that.

[MissusTexas]

MH is so patient, and a genuinely GOOD person- like he cannot do anything dishonest at all. Even something I consider minor- like ordering from the "Under 12" menu for takeout makes him squirmy. Saint.

Also, he is literally the most intelligent person I know.. his IQ has to be at the very top of the range. I'm always impressed by how quickly he can learn new things- usually just by watching it done once or skimming a paragraph on the internet.

[MissusTexas]

Okay, so we have at LEAST two saintly husbands in the group! Funny how we use the same word.

[lizo11]

He can always make me laugh, no matter how crappy my day is. He and I can still (after 8 and a half years) hang out and just talk. He is truly my best friend. He will leave me random post-it notes around, with random sayings. And meet me at home for lunch for some fun .

[Bridey]

Great cook, puts up with me, calming influence in my life, eventhough we is going through the torture of the damned with his medication he makes an effort to do what he can around the apartment.

[louietunes]

Jun 22, 2012 9:29:02 GMT -5 MissusTexas said:

Okay, so we have at LEAST two saintly husbands in the group! Funny how we use the same word.

Hehe. They'd probably get along and be all saintly together. Meanwhile, we'd get wasted and mess with people.

[shorty20]

He has no problem whatsoever helping with the chores.

He is the biggest goofball I know and can always make me laugh.

He'd rather be at home with me than out drinking, etc with friends.

He's very good with handling money.

He puts up with my crazy-azz family

[sapphire bou]

These are a few of the "Why I love you"s that I wrote before the wedding:

-You cook.
-You tell me I’m pretty even when I don’t feel it.
-You’re intelligent.
-You’re witty.
-You spoil me.
-You call me out when I’m upset just for the sake of being upset.
-You never take excuses.
-You believe in me.
-You appreciate music, nature, and natural beauty.
-You are confident in who you are.
-You love your family and stand by their side.
-You have made me smile every day since the day I met you.
-You can do your thing; I can do mine. And I never have a reason to doubt your devotion.
-You understand that I need alone time, just like I understand you need it too.
-You love me for exactly who I am.
-I have become the person I’ve always wanted to be because of you.

[honeydew1894]

Great post! My DH is also the calm rock in our life. He is a careful planner and that allows us to do more than if I were managing our $. He and I share the same sense of humor, and often can know what the other is thinking by a look. He cooks, he cleans, and he's great in bed. What else could I ask for?

[darkling_glory]

I'm jealous of all you ladies with cooks for husbands!

My hubby always does his share of the chores without complaining. Takes such good care of our high maintenance dog! And seems to just know when I've had a bad week or day and just need a little extra loving.

[conradtn]

He cooks, and during tax season that was a blessing to come home at 7:00 to a meal all ready.

He's always quick to apologize if he's done something, and its truly sincere.

He's been very supportive while I've been dealing with this purse theft and has kept me very grounded.

[winofairy]

He scrubs toilets better than I do.
He makes me the yummiest steaks on the grill.
He tells me I'm pretty and what a good person I am. He always seems to know when I need to hear it the most.
He has never ever called me "crazy" or "psycho." Not even when my behavior is clearly screaming that maybe I am.

[MyName]

He is hilarious, fun, affectionate and really good in bed.

[duff]

This is going to make me sound like a spoiled brat, but here goes:

- I cook mayyyyybe once a week, and it's usually tacos or something easy. And I'm usually home before him. He also packs my lunch/breakfast every day.
- He does the bulk of the cleaning. I used to do a big clean every Saturday while he was at work, but with my knee, he's done aobut 85% of it every week.
- He totally takes care of the dogs...my only job is to love them and play with them.
- He can make anyone laugh within seconds of being with them. He's always the life of the party.
- And he's the most amazing artist I've ever known. Anytime anyone new comes over, I get comments on my gallery-like walls and complete shock that it's all M's work.

He really took on a lot when I got hurt, and he's NEVER complained or asked me to help out. When I do try to help out, I usually get dragged back to the couch unless I throw a fit about being an invalid. I really need to do something nice for him, especially since he did all this for me last year w/the foot surgery and who knows how much longer he's going to have to be in charge now.

[winofairy]

Awwhhh! I'm getting all misty-eyed damnit!

[ILikeSloths]

*He's so sweet - one of the nicest, most caring people I've ever met. Everyone loves him.
*He's patient and puts up with me.
*He's hilarious! He makes me laugh about the silliest things all the time.
*His hugs are awesome.
*He fits in great with my family.
*He's smart and a hard worker who really cares about the community and his job. He's had to put himself in some risky situations for others and doesn't think twice about it.
*He does things for me sometimes so that I don't have to.
*He's my favorite person.

[ridethelightning]

He takes up my slack. Sometimes I don't even notice he is doing it.

[macmars45]

-He is so silly and can make me laugh or smile very easily
-He's very affectionate and loves cuddling as much as I do
-He cooks yummy foods for us
-He's very calm and supportive when I'm freaking out or pissed off about stuff
-He gives great hugs
-He's hott
-He puts me first and does little things all the time just to make me happy

[MissusTexas]

Jun 22, 2012 9:37:30 GMT -5 louietunes said:

Jun 22, 2012 9:29:02 GMT -5 MissusTexas said:

Okay, so we have at LEAST two saintly husbands in the group! Funny how we use the same word.

Hehe. They'd probably get along and be all saintly together. Meanwhile, we'd get wasted and mess with people.

Pretty much! You and I are soul mates, and our soul mates are soul mates

[Trouble]

My H is the strongest person I know. He has stood by me since day one, even when we found out what was wrong with me.
He never complains about my cooking and cleaning. Normally he has something nice to say
He loves me with all my imperfections.
He is happy most of the time and keeps me laughing.
He is my rock and my soul mate.

[blondemoment123]

He's patient with me.
He cooks (and it's yummy!)
He supports my decisions no matter how crazy they may be. (ex. getting a 3rd cat)
He's funny.
My family absolutely loves him.
He's selfless. 9/10 time he gets "tips" at work, he gives it to me.

[nearmiss]

He is so funny. He makes me smile and laugh everyday.
He's supportive and loyal.
He's a hard worker.
He is patient and caring.
He's thoughtful.

Honestly, the list goes on and on. He's pretty terrific!