Come vent with me

[wowhead]

I am such a bad mood that I don't even want to be in the same room with myself.  

1.  Just had dinner with a friend and confided in her that I was going to the doc to discuss ADD.  She adamantly  and repeatedly told me that I don't have ADD because she knows what ADD behavior is.  According to her I'm just spread to thin.  Thanks for your support!  Like I haven't had to work at accepting this about myself and working up the courage to do something about it.  

2.  My family sucks!!!  I just finished talking to my mother (who doesn't drive) and she told me that there is a surprise birthday part for my uncle on Saturday.  My grandmother wants to go but no one will take her.  Now I have to discuss cancelling plans with H to spend 7ish hours on the road to go to the surprise party of someone that I don't even like because I feel bad that my grandma wants to go and the selfish bastards that live within 10 minutes of her won't drive her.  

3.  H told me today that he's having anxiety issues.  He said it's been going on for months.  I feel like shit because I have noticed.  I just want to cry because he's been dealing with this and I have been oblivious.  

[W.T.Faulkner]

Sept 25, 2013 21:32:29 GMT -5 wowhead said:

3.  H told me today that he's having anxiety issues.  He said it's been going on for months.  I feel like shit because I have noticed.  I just want to cry because he's been dealing with this and I have been oblivious.  

If he's internalizing it, which some people do, it would have been really tough for you to notice.  Don't beat yourself up.

My vent:  I just had a mooooooonster fight with BF.  He slept through his alarm and was late for one of his jobs (he's a musician and this is a part-time gig to help make ends meet), and I got panicky.  I know he's overextended, working 7 days a week, and not sleeping enough.  I'm worried that he'll lose this job because he just doesn't get enough sleep, and we got into a fight because I got irrational and he didn't feel supported.  I just love him so much, and I want him to take care of himself.  

[Dezi]

Wowhead- could you send grandma in a cab?
DH was severely depressed for months before I noticed, I guess I just didn't know what I was looking for. Don't beat yourself up, just help however you can now that you know.

[AHappierHour]

I hate all the random PG pains. Right now I'm having the worst pain in the lower half of my belly and it's getting tight. Im laying down drinking water hoping it stops soon.

[wowhead]

Sept 25, 2013 21:45:03 GMT -5 Dezi said:

Wowhead- could you send grandma in a cab?

That's a great idea but there is only 1 taxi where she lives, not one taxis service literally one taxi and the party is over an hour from her house.  

[speckledfrog]

Everything is making me gag today and I hate it. I gagged because the air vent in the car was blowing on me. Seriously, WTF?

[margotmacomber]

Sept 25, 2013 21:54:19 GMT -5 speckledfrog said:

Everything is making me gag today and I hate it. I gagged because the air vent in the car was blowing on me. Seriously, WTF?

Not pregnant but my entire life if the heater vent blows in my face I'm instantly nauseous. It sucks.

[CurlyQ284]

Alllllll the creaky boards in the house are concentrated in the hall outside DSs room and in the front half of his room near the crib. I just dreamed him and when I went to put him back in his crib, I made a few creaks. My bulldog Lucy is barking and I can't reassure her that its just me (she is a very overzealous guard dog. Leaves that fly across the yard get growled at). Luckily DS is sleeping through it but she's doing a random bark every few minutes still. Shut up Lucy!

[wowhead]

Someone just posted this on FB. Okay, yes this is a total dick move on the woman's part but isn't saying there's a special place in hell for her a bit of an overreaction? And the number of people in the comments talking about how they would do her physical harm is just scary.

[flamingeaux]

Maybe you could get in touch with an old friend and offer them "gas money" to drive her there and pick her up when it's over.

[Captain Serious]

Sept 25, 2013 23:01:07 GMT -5 wowhead said:

Someone just posted this on FB. Okay, yes this is a total dick move on the woman's part but isn't saying there's a special place in hell for her a bit of an overreaction? And the number of people in the comments talking about how they would do her physical harm is just scary.

So wowhead how many balls have you stolen from little kids? What about candy from babies?

[wowhead]

Sept 25, 2013 23:08:21 GMT -5 Captain Serious said:

Sept 25, 2013 23:01:07 GMT -5 wowhead said:

Someone just posted this on FB. Okay, yes this is a total dick move on the woman's part but isn't saying there's a special place in hell for her a bit of an overreaction? And the number of people in the comments talking about how they would do her physical harm is just scary.

So wowhead how many balls have you stolen from little kids? What about candy from babies?

Exactly 0 balls and 0 candy and I am in no way condoning what she did.  As I said it was a total dick move.  The reaction just seems a bit over the top to me.

[messykitchen]

Sept 25, 2013 21:32:29 GMT -5 wowhead said:

1.  Just had dinner with a friend and confided in her that I was going to the doc to discuss ADD.  She adamantly  and repeatedly told me that I don't have ADD because she knows what ADD behavior is.  According to her I'm just spread to thin.  Thanks for your support!  Like I haven't had to work at accepting this about myself and working up the courage to do something about it.  

I totally get this. I am bi-polar, ADD, PTSD...and hear a few times a week, even from my dad and closest friends that HEY, I seem to be better, who needs meds. Spread too thin? I want to slap her hard for you. 

Duh assholes, the lithium makes me feel better.

I hate it when they say this crap, like I am unsupported, not capable of knowing my own feelings, and just an overreacting woman in general. It infuriates me.

Do what works with you and fuck everyone else. Be healthy. You life will change with the right treatment, I promise. 

Feel free to PM me at any time. 

[Captain Serious]

Sept 25, 2013 23:10:30 GMT -5 wowhead said:

Sept 25, 2013 23:08:21 GMT -5 Captain Serious said:

So wowhead how many balls have you stolen from little kids? What about candy from babies?

Exactly 0 balls and 0 candy and I am in no way condoning what she did.  As I said it was a total dick move.  The reaction just seems a bit over the top to me.

So it seems I'm not the only one who's real serious around here, huh?

[wowhead]

Sept 26, 2013 12:38:01 GMT -5 Captain Serious said:

Sept 25, 2013 23:10:30 GMT -5 wowhead said:

Exactly 0 balls and 0 candy and I am in no way condoning what she did.  As I said it was a total dick move.  The reaction just seems a bit over the top to me.

So it seems I'm not the only one who's real serious around here, huh?

Balls and candy and babies are serious business