Well, I'm back at my mom's house.

[Deleted]

I paid my brother's friends to move my stuff, and I'll be crashing on her couch until I get life figured out again.

Ugh, is it too early to start drinking?

[pantsparty]

I'm sorry I think you have made the right decision, difficult as it is. I'm glad you have family to lean on. Huge hugs, and no, it's never too early to start drinking.

[vicky]

i missed what happened. but i feel ya. ((hugs))

[Booze Raccoon]

It's 5:23 here!  I'll have a drink with you.

Step one to a new life!  CHEERS!   :beer:

[bonquiqui]

I'm sorry

[janiejones]

It's sunday, there are no rules about drinking!

I'm sorry vaba. ((hugs))

[joshlyman]

Not too early to drink! But seriously, you are awesome. Cheers to a new beginning.

[Saint Monica]

((Hugs))

[bania]

((Hugs)) I'm sorry you are going through this. You are so strong! Drink up!

[underwaterrhymes]

I'm so sorry for what you're going through.

[Deleted]

I liked this, but not in a 'yay, your H is a jerk!' way, but because I'm glad you are making a smart decision. I can't imagine that was going to get better.

I'm sorry you're dealing with this, though. Drink up, for sure!

[Jalapeñomel]

(((Hugs))) I missed your update, but it sounds like this is the best decision you could've made.

[venice2007]

Hugs and thoughts to you! Sorry you are having to deal with this!

[Deleted]

good for you. i'm sorry your life is in chaos right now, and hope it isn't soon.

[LLL]

No, it's not to early too start drinking. ((hugs)) you'll figure it out.

[Deleted]

I'm really sorry that you're dealing with all of this. By all means, drink up. It's going to get better.

[Mrs.Rad888]

I was wondering what you had decided to do. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. Did your H give you any grief when he found out you were leaving?

[MixedBerryJam]

I'm really sorry you're going through this and that your husband did that to you. But I'm also really, really happy for you that you drew that line in the sand, and that you stood your ground. I honestly don't know how a marriage would ever even recover from such a blatantly disrespectful action. I know you have some hard days ahead of you, but even on your darkest day, I hope you will be able to remember just how much better off you are/will be where you're going. Whereever that is. Because, man, your husband is some kind of fucked up.

[speckledfrog]

Hugs and support to you.

[noodle]

Sorry you are going through this! Sending good thoughts and hugs.

I think this is the right decision. Hard, but the right thing to do.

[Deleted]

Sept 29, 2013 17:26:51 GMT -5 Mrs.Rad888 said:

I was wondering what you had decided to do. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. Did your H give you any grief when he found out you were leaving?

He did. He actually has been really mean and nasty the last two days.

[kaybee85]

I'm so sorry ((@vaba))

I'm sure he's being a mega dick because he's being called out on his fucked up priorities and behavior, so he's lashing out.

[suzyp]

Hang in there. I'm really sorry. And I'm sorry that your husband's reaction was so bad.

[isabel]

I'm really sorry. Hang in there. You're very strong and brave to be making this decision.

[shostakovich]

Huge hugs, vaba - you definitely made the right decision, hard as it must have been. Your update about your H being mean and nasty further proves what an ace decision it was to leave him.

[bab]

Do I know you under another SN?

I'm sorry you are going through this

[Deleted]

I will have a drink with you virtually

I hope things improve for you soon. Stay strong!

[sonrisa]

Sept 29, 2013 17:35:59 GMT -5 @vaba said:

 He actually has been really mean and nasty the last two days.

That is very telling. I'm sorry you are dealing with this.

[SKP82]

I'm really sorry for what you're going through. *hugs*

[snickers]

I'm sorry