Also my husband is going to a conference next week and I am teeeeeerrrrrifffied. Leo is at a very cute but hard age. He is into everything. Jack requires a lot of attention. The only way I survive is that H and I handle them equally. I am going to be alone with them for four nights. Halp
I promise you'll come out on the other side, relatively unscathed. We all have those (well, I have many of those) times of self doubt we have to weather through. But you can be confident that you're a good mom. A very good mom.
Honestly, sometimes I think it's easier when DH isn't around at all, because we just follow our own schedule and I'm not worried about coordinating with yet another person. But I have so many moments of "WTF WAS I THINKING?", followed immediately by "YOU!!! STOP STOMPING ON HER FACE!!! YOU, STOP SCREAMING AT HIM!!! TIME OUTS FOR EVERYONE", followed immediately by a long pull on my coffee, and then "Wow, they're so sweet and great I can't imagine life without these awesome people."
I shouldn't have had two children. I love them both dearly on their own. Together it is fucking nuts and not in a good way.
Also I am a crappy mom to Jack and about 90% of it is due to having another kid. I feel guilt.
Ps I didn't even have them this weekend and I still had to grit my teeth and white knuckle through our evening. Ugh
I could have written this. I fear that C is going to think of me as being the angry mom which makes me sad. Also, sometimes when she tells me something she did, she says "Mommy, don't get angry". I hate that she is that aware.
If you lived closer to me I would head out your way and hug you.
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FINE. I WANT THAT FUCKING JELLY PURSE. Fuck the haters, that jelly purse is amazingly tacky and wonderful. I also want this chicken purse, because the tackier it is, the better it is.
Whoa. There are a lot of these confessions lately. So...how did it go? I'm 100% inexperienced when it comes to any drug use.
Well, I was at an EDM show so I danced my ass off for 4 hours, made new friends, sat on the beach and stared at stars, got Wawa macaroni. I may have hallucinated a dude named Patrick. I swear I talked to him for like an hour but my friend has zero recollection of him. It was pretty great. Not that I'd do it regularly, but another experience to tuck under my belt.
I used to deal LSD (as well as a few other things...) and have had some serious fun on it! I did see people crawl out of the TV to me, so hallucinating a dude and an entire conversation isn't that crazy. I'm glad you had a good trip!
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Post by lissaholly on Sept 29, 2013 22:19:00 GMT -5
I will bury this here because I am equally horrified and amused by my daughter. It is a Daisyism, but definitely one I can not share on FB
So, I am changing Clara's diaper before bedtime stories. Daisy (5) walks in and says "Mom, I think it makes God sad when you say a bad word when you say his name". I am thinking, Wow who told her this? So, I ask her, "Who taught you this?" Daisy responds " No one, I was just thinking." Trying to follow the path of her thoughts, I then (brilliantly I might add) agree with her and use the most mundane example I can think of, and perhaps the source of her pondering. "Yes, Daisy it does make him sad, so we shouldn't say things like God damn! " Daisy then quickly responds, " Yeah or like Fuck God! We shouldn't say that, that would be probably be the worst that you could say."
After, I got over the shock I eventually told her that we can't say that word, it is really bad, but come on! I am in real trouble when my 5 yo is strategizing how to make offensive words more offensive;(
For the record, we are not consistent on church, Daisy went to religious preschools , and DH is a terrible,TERRIBLE potty mouth.
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Post by pixelpassion on Sept 30, 2013 1:59:58 GMT -5
I'm getting married next year, and I've only ever been with FI. I sometimes wish I could get a "be a total slut for the day" coupon or something that would allow me to have sex with a ton of people.
Been there, done that. She was a friend and things were still fine between us afterwards actually. We are special snowflakes though. It was also in my early 20's vs. now in my late 20's I don't know if I'd do it again. No, it wasn't just some college thing either. A very platonic guy friend and I had this conversation on Friday actually, oddly enough.
I also say try anything once within reason. It won't kill you!
I'm getting married next year, and I've only ever been with FI. I sometimes wish I could get a "be a total slut for the day" coupon or something that would allow me to have sex with a ton of people.
I'm getting married next year, and I've only ever been with FI. I sometimes wish I could get a "be a total slut for the day" coupon or something that would allow me to have sex with a ton of people.
Like a swinger's party? Lol jk.
Lol, for some reason it reminds me more of an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm where Larry's wife lets him have sex with whoever he wants guilt free for his birthday.
I've never done drugs. At least not fun drugs. I've taken adderall. I think I actually need adderall though because the only way I can pay attention is if I give myself an adrenaline rush.
We're thinking about getting another dog, even though poor old Rowdy hasn't even been gone a month yet. We're lonely, Baby Girl is lonely, and it is just not the same around here without another dog.
Initially I was really against getting another (since Pockets died 2.5 years ago, I couldn't even think of it) but now I realize that I need to have dogs in the house. As sad as it is to lose them, I think I would be even more sad to come home every day to a quiet, empty house.
We are looking at this little guy. I like him because he looks like an ewok. I am trying to arrange a meeting between him and BG. I hope she likes him.
I don't find puppies all that cute. I like old dogs. I am probably the devil for thinking that. CONTROVERSIAL.
I'm kinda with u here. Here and there I see a pup that catches my eye but overall, grown dogs are much better Both mine now are from rescue and we got them fully grown with not much of a clue as to their ages