Confessions or Flamefuls?

[polka]

dcannie, I'm glad you are in a good place emotionally.  Hugs.

Chib, I'm sorry to hear that.  I hope things can start improving for you guys soon.   Good luck to you too, TR.

eta:  snickers just read your post too.  Hugs, hang in there.  Hope you start feeling better soon!

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Sept 30, 2013 18:10:41 GMT -5 TR said:

Thanks @jezebel. Hey, probably not happening (only in my dreams), but would you hang out with me if I moved to Denver, lol?

Obviously!  We've got some pretty awesome ladies here  

[snickers]

Sept 30, 2013 18:14:58 GMT -5 @licia said:

Sept 30, 2013 17:45:00 GMT -5 snickers said:

I am absolutely in love with my little girl, but in the evenings I find myself a little depressed maybe? My days are fantastic, and she is a great baby. H does nothing but help me with everything, but in the evenings my mind starts going over and over the fact that my life just fast forwarded 5 weeks all of the sudden, and I am ashamed to admit it makes me really emotional. I know it's only day 4 since she has been here, and a lot of it has to do with me having to stay in the hospital before she arrived, but damn why can't I just accept it and move on?

Ok, do not sweat the way you feel. After I had my daughter, I was a mess every night for weeks. It was total clockwork. 8pm would roll around and I would be inconsolable for 2 hours, finally get a little rest, glass of water and a breather and I would be fine.

I promise you, the farther away you get from delivery, the better you will feel. Your doctor will probably evaluate you 6-weeks PP, and if those feelings are still hanging in, let them know so your doc can treat you accordingly. It's going to be ok! Keep soldiering on, Mama!

Eta: my sadness would center around DD being breech, because she was unable to turn due to my pelvis shape, and also that complications with my subsequent c-section kept me from establishing breast feeding. Seriously stuff that was ok and out of my control. But it just destroyed me for awhile.

Anyway, it's going to get better. Ugly cry if you have to, and don't be upset that you can't "let go". Your body is going nuts right now. You couldn't let go if you tried.

Thank you for this. Thank you very much

[Saint Monica]

I am 98% sure opposing counsel today was high. I really really want to ask him. I just cannot figure out a way to do so in a non-offensive way.

[Saint Monica]

Sept 30, 2013 17:45:05 GMT -5 littleduck said:

on a message board.

Which one?

[Saint Monica]

Sept 30, 2013 18:42:36 GMT -5 HRH Queen Dick I, Orphan said:

Sept 30, 2013 18:37:35 GMT -5 Saint Monica said:

I am 98% sure opposing counsel today was high. I really really want to ask him. I just cannot figure out a way to do so in a non-offensive way.

What kind of high? Ups or downs?

Weed.

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Sept 30, 2013 18:42:45 GMT -5 TR said:

Sept 30, 2013 18:31:27 GMT -5 @jezebel said:

Obviously!  We've got some pretty awesome ladies here  

I may at least be visiting at some point in the next few months, depending on how my life goes.

Ok, you know where to find me.  Annnd, I'm always here.  lol

[MWOS]

Sept 30, 2013 18:43:22 GMT -5 Saint Monica said:

Sept 30, 2013 18:42:36 GMT -5 HRH Queen Dick I, Orphan said:

What kind of high? Ups or downs?

Weed.

Here's what you do. Next time you see him out of the court room, kinda squint at him a little and say "Are you cool" and when he says "what?" say "are you COOL??" and look at him knowingly. 

[bonquiqui]

Somebody stop me.  I have 3 palettes in my shopping bag at ulta...stop me!

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Sept 30, 2013 18:43:22 GMT -5 Saint Monica said:

Sept 30, 2013 18:42:36 GMT -5 HRH Queen Dick I, Orphan said:

What kind of high? Ups or downs?

Weed.

schedule all of your conference calls for 4:20 until he says something.

[LeggsBenedict]

Sept 30, 2013 18:55:04 GMT -5 bonquiqui said:

Somebody stop me.  I have 3 palettes in my shopping bag at ulta...stop me!

I could send you my address.

[thinkofthesoldiers]

Sept 30, 2013 18:20:14 GMT -5 Alyssa said:

My friend just posted a picture of her DH giving their young child a piggy back ride......I may or may not have noticed that he has a nice ass.

The husband or the kid's ass?

[papie]

Sept 30, 2013 16:58:08 GMT -5 @kande818 said:

Confession and flameful: I can only eat one of the two reese's peanut butter cups. They're too rich for me. So I always throw away the second. I crave them once every few months so its silly to save it. *-)

What is WRONG with you???

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dcannie, i'd totally hug you if hugs were your thing. so, i'm giving you whatever the welcome hug equivalent is. i think about you a lot and send you mental luck.


here's my confession: i've been so focused on stress and organizing and feeling like crap and blah that it only just reoccurred to me that i'm going to get a baby out of this whole deal. a little squishy one. with teeny tiny toes and stuff. yay!

[fuckyourcouch]

Sept 30, 2013 18:57:12 GMT -5 cville said:

Sept 30, 2013 18:43:22 GMT -5 Saint Monica said:

Weed.

schedule all of your conference calls for 4:20 until he says something.

OMG why is this so funny

[cuddlyevil]

Sept 30, 2013 17:29:27 GMT -5 Chib said:

Confession: I'm very depressed in my marriage and am exhausted of trying to tell my H what's wrong and he's attentive to what's wrong for a day or two and goes back to being the way he usually is. I have no idea how to tell my H anymore; I've cried, yelled, written, etc.. how I feel and its still not going through.

I am so sorry.

I am going through the same with my H.

[Saint Monica]

For about the past 2 weeks I've not been able to have an orgasm on my own. I hate relying on the kindness of others.

[MarmeeNoir]

I went to the gas station and bought Reese's pb cups, because of this thread. I don't think I took a breath until both were finished.

[ohiowan]

H made Spam tacos tonight, and they were delicious.

[fuckyourcouch]

Sept 30, 2013 19:19:12 GMT -5 Que? said:

Sept 30, 2013 19:06:38 GMT -5 fuckyourcouch said:

OMG why is this so funny

Because you're high?

Could be a contact high from denver!

[speckledfrog]

Sept 30, 2013 17:38:47 GMT -5 ohiowan said:

Sept 30, 2013 16:58:08 GMT -5 @kande818 said:

Confession and flameful: I can only eat one of the two reese's peanut butter cups. They're too rich for me. So I always throw away the second. I crave them once every few months so its silly to save it. *-)

I hereby volunteer to be your reese's cup dumping ground. You're welcome.

Right?!  Bring that shit to the next GTG!

[childofhiphop]

Sept 30, 2013 16:58:08 GMT -5 @kande818 said:

Confession and flameful: I can only eat one of the two reese's peanut butter cups. They're too rich for me. So I always throw away the second. I crave them once every few months so its silly to save it. *-)

This is very ironic given your screen name.

How could you not love one of the best candies?

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Left over reeses for all those with the munchies and for the next DFW gtg

[Deleted]

I do not like chocolate bars of any kind. Not even fancy chocolate bars.

[ilovelamp]

This thread is weird.

Confession/vent:
I feel like I can't join in discussions & complain about being tired to my nursing school classmates because they all have kids and I don't. I can still be tired though, right? I'm not comparing my tired to your tired, it's not a contest, BUT IF IT WERE YOU WOULD WIN!

[MWOS]

sometimes when my bf talks....and talks....and talks, I look at him and try to will him to just be silent for 30 seconds

so far, unsuccessful

[LeggsBenedict]

Sept 30, 2013 19:50:07 GMT -5 MWOS said:

sometimes when my bf talks....and talks....and talks, I look at him and try to will him to just be silent for 30 seconds

so far, unsuccessful

you're not looking at him hard enough.

[MWOS]

Sept 30, 2013 19:51:06 GMT -5 HRH Queen Dick I, Orphan said:

Sept 30, 2013 19:50:07 GMT -5 MWOS said:

sometimes when my bf talks....and talks....and talks, I look at him and try to will him to just be silent for 30 seconds

so far, unsuccessful

so he's a 5 year old? 

nah, he doesn't use crayons on the rug

[Deleted]

This thread is disappointing!

[Deleted]

Sept 30, 2013 19:28:46 GMT -5 @kande818 said:

Left over reeses for all those with the munchies and for the next DFW gtg

I can't even eat chocolate and I am sad...sad for these Reese Cups.