Mags, just out of curiosity: What do you mean when you say it'd be sending up red flags for grown men/women to wait longer than two months to have sex when they're attracted to each other?
Well, if you are both consenting adults, like each other, and have chemistry, it would be odd to me that something or someone would be holding back. If HE wasnt putting the moves on me i would be giving him/us a serious side eye. I would also assume that after 2 months you both know that you enjoy each others company and want to spend more time together. Make more sense?