Fuckstick, I need you (bra related)

[TrickyBob]

I ordered a 44J bra and it came today. I tried it on and though the band fits wonderful, the cups are a bit too big. I had a 10" difference, if I bump it down to an 8" difference it says that I then could order G/H/J. So I ordered a 44H. This would just make the cup size smaller and change nothing else, correct? I don't have to alter band size in relation to changing cup size, right? 

Also, for anyone, what do you do about boobs that are two different sizes? My right is noticeably smaller and when I tried this bra on and though my left filled the cup out enough, my right was my reason for going down in cup size. Do I buy bras to fit my left comfortably and just let ole righty flap in the fabric breeze or do I squish lefty a bit to get the right one closer to fitting? 

[Deleted]

When your boobs are noticeably different sizes, you buy your bras to fit the larger breast and you can use an insert of some sort in the smaller side's cup to help fill it out.

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Also if both cups were too large before then just going down a cupsize should work out ok.