This is bugging the ever loving shit out of me, re xh

[melindafelinda]

I would laugh at them.

[bonquiqui]

I am glad that I don't have to know when this happens, although I am sure I will find out.  We still share a great number of friends.  boo

[Deleted]

That sounds childish.

[MWOS]

hahahahahah they are PROMISE rings

[jane6672]

Oct 29, 2013 20:40:45 GMT -5 MWOS said:

hahahahahah they are PROMISE rings

We aren't engaged yet we just know that we are going to get engaged someday.

[janiejones]

Is she [also] divorced?

I know a couple that will never marry because she wants to keep spousal support from her previous H. Maybe they are symbolic but they'll never 'act' on it.


Also, I would be annoyed too. But I'd want to not care.

[Deleted]

Oct 29, 2013 20:46:04 GMT -5 @stpete said:

Oct 29, 2013 20:43:45 GMT -5 janiejones said:

Is she [also] divorced?

I know a couple that will never marry because she wants to keep spousal support from her previous H. Maybe they are symbolic but they'll never 'act' on it.


Also, I would be annoyed too. But I'd want to not care.

I have no idea. I know she has kids, but when I asked if her kids are with their dad when she spends weekends with e and Sam (every weekend) she said no, the 19yo watches the 14yo, or the younger goes to grandma's.


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Well that's sort of sad.  She leaves her 14 year old every weekend?  Poor kid
Also the rings thing is weird.

[lissaholly]

This kinda makes me sad. I don't know why, but if you can't excuse it as naïveté, then it seems a little desperate.  Like they want to appear married more than just getting married, or they are married but don't want to admit to it?  Both just seem sad.

It would drive me batty to though, if it was my EX. 

[Deleted]

Oct 29, 2013 20:41:30 GMT -5 @stpete said:

Oct 29, 2013 20:39:58 GMT -5 @lazerus24 said:

That sounds childish.

The rings, me caring, or both?

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Lol. The rings.

They sound like drama.

[Deleted]

Oct 29, 2013 20:46:04 GMT -5 @stpete said:

Oct 29, 2013 20:43:45 GMT -5 janiejones said:

Is she [also] divorced?

I know a couple that will never marry because she wants to keep spousal support from her previous H. Maybe they are symbolic but they'll never 'act' on it.


Also, I would be annoyed too. But I'd want to not care.

I have no idea. I know she has kids, but when I asked if her kids are with their dad when she spends weekends with e and Sam (every weekend) she said no, the 19yo watches the 14yo, or the younger goes to grandma's.


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I don't like her already.
Every weekend?

[Deleted]

You are justified in your annoyance btw.

[Deleted]

YOU CAN LOOK THIS UP IN P COUNTY'S OFFICIAL COURT RECORDS ONLINE, I think. I know you can in H County.

[angelaa73]

omg they ARE married. I just looked





no. i didnt. just kidding

[hisno1girl]

Haha, I just always start out conversations with my exH, "Is there presently a Mrs.ExLName?" My ex has been married several times after me.

[Deleted]

Dorks! Both of them.

[thebreakfastclub]

One can only hope that they ditch the rings and get ring tattoos.

[wambam]

So weird.

[saucyc]

I bet she posts on the "not engaged yet" Knot board
(do they still have that board? please say yes)

[toepick]

It drives me crazy that I have no idea if my Ex has married the woman he was cheating on me with. (That sentence is grammatically stupid but I don't want to fix it). We went to a small college and obviously have friends in common, but either he isn't keeping in touch with people or they aren't telling me things. The curiosity is killing me!

[Deleted]

Oct 29, 2013 20:40:45 GMT -5 MWOS said:

hahahahahah they are PROMISE rings

This is the first thing that came to my mind.  That is so 8th grade!

[Alyssa]

Not being snarky at all, just an observation.....but why do you care? You're no longer with him, he's moved on....it seems like a lot of wasted energy for you to get all riled up over the placement of some stupid rings.

[Deleted]

Oct 30, 2013 11:44:34 GMT -5 Alyssa said:

Not being snarky at all, just an observation.....but why do you care? You're no longer with him, he's moved on....it seems like a lot of wasted energy for you to get all riled up over the placement of some stupid rings.

It's just sooooooo weird to wonder if the father of your children is engaged or remarried and to be annoyed that he isn't being up front about it.

[Deleted]

Getting riled up is never wasted energy. That, along with openly hating on people is pretty much how I recharge.

[cleo29]

Oct 29, 2013 21:13:37 GMT -5 @stpete said:

Oct 29, 2013 21:01:13 GMT -5 @weeble said:

Well that's sort of sad.  She leaves her 14 year old every weekend?  Poor kid
Also the rings thing is weird.

I want to be fair, it appears to be most weekends, but maybe it's 3/4..I've never heard of her 14,yo coming along for the weekend, which seems odd to me. Why not let the kids all get to know each other? And make the 14yo feel a part of things?


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This makes me sad for her kid. I think the two of them are kind of living in la la land about this whole thing. It just seems that they have gone about things oddly from the start.

And don't get me started on adults wearing promise rings. If you are engaged or married, just say so. ugh