Post by lasagnasshole on Nov 7, 2013 11:58:37 GMT -5
We're an ENTJ/INTJ marriage. I feel like we have really squandered our income potential! We should be rolling in dolla dolla bills and Scrooge McDucking it.
I really think ENTJs like myself find it much easier to lean in. I've also read that we are the only personality type to have zero working mom guilt, which helps.
Yes. I find it almost hard to comprehend how hard it is for others to lean in.
I'm an accountant and I find I work with a lot of rationalists. However, I can see that the extrovert people are much more successful than the introvert people.
I really think ENTJs like myself find it much easier to lean in. I've also read that we are the only personality type to have zero working mom guilt, which helps.
Yes. I find it almost hard to comprehend how hard it is for others to lean in.
I am an ESTJ, but very similar in most regards.
As an INTJ, I'll say I don't even like all the references to "leaning in" I've been hearing lately.
I really think ENTJs like myself find it much easier to lean in. I've also read that we are the only personality type to have zero working mom guilt, which helps.
Yes. I find it almost hard to comprehend how hard it is for others to lean in.
I am an ESTJ, but very similar in most regards.
Same. I have to even push my supervisor to advocate for herself. It blows my mind.
INTJ, but I really focus on trying to be more extroverted at work. I'm lucky I have a field where being introverted is expected (medical communications), but I am drained on high E days. Everyone I worked with thinks I'm super extroverted so I think I fake it well.
My husband is an ENFP but definitely does better than most idealists.
INTJ, but I really focus on trying to be more extroverted at work. I'm lucky I have a field where being introverted is expected (medical communications), but I am drained on high E days. Everyone I worked with thinks I'm super extroverted so I think I fake it well.
This is me exactly. I'm an accountant and have always been very introverted. My role at this company turned from processing payrolls to software implementations and meeting with new customers so over time I am becoming more extroverted but on days when I have to be more involved, I am beat when I get home and I just want to be alone.
Post by mrs.jacinthe on Nov 7, 2013 19:15:47 GMT -5
I'll sit down with all the other INFPs. My boss regularly forgets to pay me and I'll never stand up for myself/put my foot down, b/c I *hate* conflict.
I'm an ENTP & H is an INTP....and unsurprisingly we are Architects. H does well for our profession but being the sole income with lots of kids sure lights a fire under your butt to make money.
To piggyback on the working mom guilt comments above - I am an ESTJ and also do not have working mom guilt (could also be attributed to having a very flexible job).
DH said last night that he read 75% of corporate CEOs are introverts. Extroverts do well up to a certain point and then can't make the leap to CEO. He also mentioned that extroverts do well in sales (duh) and that's how they tend to move up the corporate ladder
DH said last night that he read 75% of corporate CEOs are introverts. Extroverts do well up to a certain point and then can't make the leap to CEO. He also mentioned that extroverts do well in sales (duh) and that's how they tend to move up the corporate ladder
Based on my (general, not scientific) observations, this is so true!
I am a pseudo-extroverted INTJ. It took years of practice to overcome extreme shyness and I now fool many people into thinking I am an extrovert. Still, I instinctively seek solitude and low-stimulation environments, which can sometimes be a hindrance to professional advancement (e.g. I would often rather have lunch alone with a book than go out with other people, but I might miss out on a networking opportunity by doing so).
Another INTJ/ENTJ couple here. We both work in the same field. DH is the ENTJ and took the fast track to management. I am perfectly happy to remain a peon.
DH said last night that he read 75% of corporate CEOs are introverts. Extroverts do well up to a certain point and then can't make the leap to CEO. He also mentioned that extroverts do well in sales (duh) and that's how they tend to move up the corporate ladder
I wonder what makes that the case? And why they would be interested in being CEO as it would involve so much time working and I assume most CEOs don't do much work by themselves.
In my industry, Sr executives almost always get there by having started a business. And either staying with that business forever or being bought by a bigger company and coming in as a VP and moving up. What type of people are entrepreneurial?
DH said last night that he read 75% of corporate CEOs are introverts. Extroverts do well up to a certain point and then can't make the leap to CEO. He also mentioned that extroverts do well in sales (duh) and that's how they tend to move up the corporate ladder
I wonder what makes that the case? And why they would be interested in being CEO as it would involve so much time working and I assume most CEOs don't do much work by themselves.
In my industry, Sr executives almost always get there by having started a business. And either staying with that business forever or being bought by a bigger company and coming in as a VP and moving up. What type of people are entrepreneurial?
Introversion/extroversion have nothing to do with liking to work. Many introverts are workaholics, especially in the INTJ group.