I want to *be* married. Now. It took a while to get here. I love H but had a terrible divorce.
But I don't want to have the wedding. But H does. And he's not divorced. And he's planning mostly the whole thing. Signed us up for pre-Cana, called my home parish priest, got the date, found me a dress-maker.
I can't identify the exact aversion. I've had thoughts that the ceremony I had before made not one ounce of difference in the outcome in the marriage - so what was the point of it all......but I don't think that's the major enthusiasm drain.
I wonder if its our stage in life right now. All ready have the kid. H is injured, I have a new job. For one thing (probably not the *only* thing) I don't have time and energy to spend on this stuff. And it feels like a mistake to siphon resources away for planning. This is horrible of me (as a wife). I know.
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
Fuck it. You don't have to be "up" all the time. It's ok and we're here for ye. That sucks and let yourself be sad. But know there are a ton of us who think the world of you.
*lol you, not "ye". I'm not from merry ol olden days. Shit. Something funnier was worded in my head but I just forgot it.
Thank you, and you totally made me smile, and then laugh. You are all the best friends a girl could have, really. (heart)
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I sent a semi sexual text to my husband pertaining to procreating. He texted back "what?! No." and I was getting a bit upset because that was NOT the answer I was looking for.
I sent a semi sexual text to my husband pertaining to procreating. He texted back "what?! No." and I was getting a bit upset because that was NOT the answer I was looking for.
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I sent a semi sexual text to my husband pertaining to procreating. He texted back "what?! No." and I was getting a bit upset because that was NOT the answer I was looking for.
I sent a semi sexual text to my husband pertaining to procreating. He texted back "what?! No." and I was getting a bit upset because that was NOT the answer I was looking for.
And then I looked...very carefully...
I sent it to my ex co-worker. LOL. Oops.
Funk-breaker right there! Hysterical! I hope it was somebody with a sense of humor..... !
I sent a semi sexual text to my husband pertaining to procreating. He texted back "what?! No." and I was getting a bit upset because that was NOT the answer I was looking for.
And then I looked...very carefully...
I sent it to my ex co-worker. LOL. Oops.
OMG lol What did you say after that exchange? lol
Uh, well, he commented that at least someone was getting some. Haha.
Post by pedanticwench on Nov 8, 2013 22:17:21 GMT -5
I'm sitting here, on the couch, about to literally cry as my H is playing Battlefield 4 because he didn't get me a copy when he was at the game store earlier. We play online with friends--that is the norm for us. They're all playing online together and I'm sitting here. My feelings are really hurt. Why didn't he think of me and get two copies?
I have all the books I could need, and what more could I need than books? I shall only engage in commerce if books are the coin. -- Catherynne M. Valente
Another confession? I just turned on "too cute" about baby kittens for my kitties to watch. They love this show, it is their jam. They are on the couch watching.
If I were a cat, I'd totally want you to be my Mom.
Another confession? I just turned on "too cute" about baby kittens for my kitties to watch. They love this show, it is their jam. They are on the couch watching.
I would leave Meerkat Manor on for my cats when it was on. They loved it.
That is awesome. It is so funny that they actually watch it. I used to let Lili and Belle (live with xh now) watch bird videos on the computer.
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
Another confession? I just turned on "too cute" about baby kittens for my kitties to watch. They love this show, it is their jam. They are on the couch watching.
If I were a cat, I'd totally want you to be my Mom.
This is one of the most amazing compliments ever (heart)
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I'm sitting here, on the couch, about to literally cry as my H is playing Battlefield 4 because he didn't get me a copy when he was at the game store earlier. We play online with friends--that is the norm for us. They're all playing online together and I'm sitting here. My feelings are really hurt. Why didn't he think of me and get two copies?
I'm lame.
I am sorry. Is it too late to get another copy tonight?
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I have all the books I could need, and what more could I need than books? I shall only engage in commerce if books are the coin. -- Catherynne M. Valente
I'm sitting here, on the couch, about to literally cry as my H is playing Battlefield 4 because he didn't get me a copy when he was at the game store earlier. We play online with friends--that is the norm for us. They're all playing online together and I'm sitting here. My feelings are really hurt. Why didn't he think of me and get two copies?
I'm lame.
I am sorry. Is it too late to get another copy tonight?
Thanks
It's too late for me because once the pjs go on, they ain't coming off anytime soon. I should make him go back out and get it.
I have all the books I could need, and what more could I need than books? I shall only engage in commerce if books are the coin. -- Catherynne M. Valente
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I have all the books I could need, and what more could I need than books? I shall only engage in commerce if books are the coin. -- Catherynne M. Valente
Post by pedanticwench on Nov 8, 2013 22:36:55 GMT -5
I just want to say that Too Cute is like, the best show to watch when you're feeling blue. I mean, it's perfect. Fluffy kittens and adorable puppies. It's great.
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I have all the books I could need, and what more could I need than books? I shall only engage in commerce if books are the coin. -- Catherynne M. Valente
"You. You and your crazy life. You and your geographic anomaly. You and your drunken lesbianic ways and terrible navigational skills." - ProfArt and her holy baby
Sometimes my h does really redneck things and it's totally embarrassing. Like, today he ripped out some 5 foot shrubs by wrapping a chain around them and ripping them out with his truck. The lookie-loo neighbour across the road was staring at him from his front window and I could tell he was thinking "wtf is going on over there".
Just dig them out like a normal person, h. Whyyy do you have to rip everything out with a chain and your truck??
Whenever anything is stuck anywhere DHs face lights up and goes "wellllll ICouldTotallyPullitOutWithMyJeep!" As he walks quickly over to start hooking it up. He loves pulling shit with his jeep. If someone gets it out before he can do it he gets all disappointed.
I don't have a confession but since it feels more like a random thread. I need some serious help with a clothing makeover but I have zero money for clothes so it would be pointless to get advice.
I found an indoor toddler play place/gym. We are checking it out tomorrow. This may be the key to my survival this winter. I can't find much for Henry to do to burn off energy. I don't think I'm supposed to take him to an indoor pool because of fumes from the chlorine, right? And the rec dept offers all these classes/activities but they start at 18 months and he's only 12 months old. He needs to burn the energy people!
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
"You. You and your crazy life. You and your geographic anomaly. You and your drunken lesbianic ways and terrible navigational skills." - ProfArt and her holy baby