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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:29:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 20:29:25 GMT -5 deleted. i just can't.
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alzi Elder Posts: 18,487 Likes: 16,020	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:31:45 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by alzi on Nov 11, 2013 20:31:45 GMT -5 Holy crap. There is no way you can make him leave? I don't understand. Why would he WANT to stay?? I'm so sorry.
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lilafowler Elder Posts: 24,725 Likes: 52,212	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:31:58 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lilafowler on Nov 11, 2013 20:31:58 GMT -5 I can't imagine how awkward this situation must be. I'm sorry.
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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:32:35 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 20:32:35 GMT -5 deleted this part. i'm crying. i seriously hate my life so much right now.
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wambam Moderator Making America Emo Again Posts: 37,817 Likes: 58,042	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:34:30 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wambam on Nov 11, 2013 20:34:30 GMT -5 He brings home women?! How disrespectful. Many many hair pets.
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ax2 Full Member Posts: 1,913 Likes: 927	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:36:24 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ax2 on Nov 11, 2013 20:36:24 GMT -5 Ugh, that's a terrible situation to be in. I'm so sorry he's being such a dick bag.
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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:39:24 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 20:39:24 GMT -5 deleted.
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Deleted Posts: 0	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:41:00 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2013 20:41:00 GMT -5 No advice just wanted to say I'm so sorry Sent from my SCH-I535 using proboards
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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:41:06 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 20:41:06 GMT -5 deleted.
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I'm so sorry. This sucks donkey balls.

Is keeping the house worth it? Get a realtor, put it up for rent, anything to not be living there any more. And if that won't work, divide the common space and only clean your part.

He sounds horrible and you do not deserve this.

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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:51:20 GMT -5 dcannie, speckledfrog, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 20:51:20 GMT -5 deleted.
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Deleted Posts: 0	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:52:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2013 20:52:41 GMT -5 Put the house up for sale. Go to court and get a restraining order. Yes, you absolutely can if he is being verbally abusive. What does your lawyer say? Why are you accepting this? Throw him out. If you can't then move out.
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Oh lightyears, I'm so sorry. What a hot mess!

I'm wondering what happens if you take control of what you CAN control here. Put a lock on your bedroom door. Keep everything you can in there.

He's hungry? Better buy some food 'cause there sure as shit isn't any in the kitchen!

He wants to watch TV? Hmm, better get cable turned on because we don't have ay cable here! Sorry STBX, you're cutting back now that your have pretty substantial legal fees and ares still supporting his lazy ass.

He pooped? HOPE HE PICKED UP SOME TP LAST TIME HE WAS OUT! You didn't leave any in the bathroom.

Live straight dorm style. Everything in your bedroom. Make him take care of/purchase his own shit. He's not leaving because he has soooo much control here, and his life is a freaking cake walk. Find any way you can (even if it seems insignificant) to take some back.

I hope he's gone soon. ((((hugs)))))

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Deleted Posts: 0	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:58:07 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2013 20:58:07 GMT -5 I would call the cops every time he so much as blinked at me until they said he has to go. Can you try that?
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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 20:59:44 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 20:59:44 GMT -5 deleted.
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Post by greenapple on Nov 11, 2013 21:02:23 GMT -5

I was going to suggest the same course of action as Lola. Make his time in the home very uncomfortable. Unless you are required to keep up a standard of living until the divorce is finalized I would make sure he has nothing to keep him so cozy.

And sorry but your "friend" is not your "friend" if she is seeing your stbxH while the two of you are in the same home. How crass.

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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:03:18 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 21:03:18 GMT -5 deleted.
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greenapple New Member Posts: 351 Likes: 165	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:05:44 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by greenapple on Nov 11, 2013 21:05:44 GMT -5 I'm sorry you are dealing with this. Audacity on the part of your stbxH and your "friend" doesn't seem to cover it.
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snickers Elder Posts: 15,367 Likes: 3,244	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:05:54 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by snickers on Nov 11, 2013 21:05:54 GMT -5 I'm sorry
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greenapple New Member Posts: 351 Likes: 165	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:08:19 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by greenapple on Nov 11, 2013 21:08:19 GMT -5 I would require a bit more from your lawyer. Aren't YOU paying HIM (her) to resolve it? WTF does that even mean?
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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:11:38 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 21:11:38 GMT -5 Nov 11, 2013 21:08:19 GMT -5 greenapple said: deleted.
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sparkythelawyer Elder Posts: 14,821 Likes: 22,851	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:12:30 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sparkythelawyer on Nov 11, 2013 21:12:30 GMT -5 "Resolve the matter?" WTF? Do you have a time frame frame for when this divorce will be resolved?
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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:14:42 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 21:14:42 GMT -5 sparkythelawyer long story short, no. i don't. i have no idea how long exactly.
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lime Senior Member Posts: 8,197 Likes: 4,891	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:18:03 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lime on Nov 11, 2013 21:18:03 GMT -5 I missed the OP, but I'm sorry you are dealing with all this crap.
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lightyears Full Member Posts: 3,206 Likes: 6,547	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:18:04 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightyears on Nov 11, 2013 21:18:04 GMT -5 i deleted everything, gang. sorry, but i still have no privacy here. thanks for the support/advice.
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leahmel Full Member Posts: 2,458 Likes: 1,332	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 21:58:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by leahmel on Nov 11, 2013 21:58:41 GMT -5 I don't know what's going on, but it's obvious that he is in the wrong based on the other responses. I hope this all resolves for you quickly. I like the dorm style living idea.
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bonquiqui Elder Posts: 25,220 Likes: 19,338	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 22:18:34 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bonquiqui on Nov 11, 2013 22:18:34 GMT -5 I am sorry lightyears
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berbles Senior Member Posts: 9,999 Likes: 14,576	i need hair pets. Nov 11, 2013 22:22:55 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by berbles on Nov 11, 2013 22:22:55 GMT -5 I missed all your posts, but even from what I can gather, I'm horrified. Come to Cali, we can be roomies. Roxy and Rigby can be BFFs. :hugs:
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