Can we have a Wednesday confession post?

[devotchka]

I have one! I stayed up way too late last night and then H was snoring and Max wanted to nurse right when I got into bed which delayed my sleep until like 1:30-2. Ugh. So I slept in this morning, told H to wake me up at 7:30. He half-assedly fed Max (I had to make him more food bc he barely ate anything) and then put on Signing Time DVD and just sat around. I got annoyed when I woke up and got snarky with him. He woke me up late and I barely had any time to do anything before sending them out the door to drop him off at preschool and for H to go to work.

So I told work I was going to be in between 9:30-10 and lied that I had to drop Max off at school. Instead of going to work on time I just drank my coffee, ate some toast and probed and internetted for an hour. I took a leisurely shower and got to work at 10. Ha.

I am a crappy wife and a liar... but I feel great! 

[muppetinma]

Sounds brilliant to me!

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You deserve it! Play date next week?

[devotchka]

Dec 4, 2013 15:25:22 GMT -5 @jayhawkali said:

You deserve it! Play date next week?

YA!

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I really want to send out holiday cards this year but I just can't pull the plug on spending the money on cards and postage. Plus I suck at mailing things.

[carawestt]

Dec 4, 2013 15:33:49 GMT -5 @jayhawkali said:

I really want to send out holiday cards this year but I just can't pull the plug on spending the money on cards and postage. Plus I suck at mailing things.

There's so many deals right now! Shutterfly is like 40% off.

[devotchka]

Dec 4, 2013 15:36:24 GMT -5 carawestt said:

Dec 4, 2013 15:33:49 GMT -5 @jayhawkali said:

I really want to send out holiday cards this year but I just can't pull the plug on spending the money on cards and postage. Plus I suck at mailing things.

There's so many deals right now! Shutterfly is like 40% off.

Also, did you see my costco post? 50 for $34.50. I would like to afford Xmas gifts for friends but can't so I do this instead, that's my excuse :/

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I think it's more the addressing them I'm lazy I just made a list of people I would want to send to and I counted 50 which I know isn't a lot compared to some of your lists

[carawestt]

Dec 4, 2013 15:43:37 GMT -5 @jayhawkali said:

I think it's more the addressing them I'm lazy I just made a list of people I would want to send to and I counted 50 which I know isn't a lot compared to some of your lists

You can get them pre-addressed too. You're running out of excuses

[Deleted]

DH and I got in a fight last night. We don't get in many. I destroyed things in my house. A picture frame and a plate. Because I'm just so mad and stressed and frustrated that I knocked things off tables like a child.

[unclejesse]

I catnapped while A watched Daniel Tiger and Super Why. He sat right next to me on the couch the whole time. It's the only two shows I can trust he will just sit there and watch. It was awesome.

[devotchka]

Dec 4, 2013 15:43:37 GMT -5 @jayhawkali said:

I think it's more the addressing them I'm lazy I just made a list of people I would want to send to and I counted 50 which I know isn't a lot compared to some of your lists

Make a spreadsheet w/ addresses that people email to you (ask them to!) and then print some labels! I hate addressing them too. Gonna try to steal labels at work and do this. Let me know if you want me to do it for you  

[devotchka]

Dec 4, 2013 15:47:50 GMT -5 @thadsrad said:

DH and I got in a fight last night. We don't get in many. I destroyed things in my house. A picture frame and a plate. Because I'm just so mad and stressed and frustrated that I knocked things off tables like a child.

Wow... what was the fight about? 

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Dec 4, 2013 15:55:06 GMT -5 devotchka said:

Dec 4, 2013 15:47:50 GMT -5 @thadsrad said:

DH and I got in a fight last night. We don't get in many. I destroyed things in my house. A picture frame and a plate. Because I'm just so mad and stressed and frustrated that I knocked things off tables like a child.

Wow... what was the fight about? 

He hasn't been feeling the love from me lately.  Which is probably true.  I'm so tapped out right now I just have nothing left to give.  

I should add, I didn't break anything AT him.  No one was in the room with me. 

I think I need a punching bag.  

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Dec 4, 2013 15:54:40 GMT -5 devotchka said:

Dec 4, 2013 15:43:37 GMT -5 @jayhawkali said:

I think it's more the addressing them I'm lazy I just made a list of people I would want to send to and I counted 50 which I know isn't a lot compared to some of your lists

Make a spreadsheet w/ addresses that people email to you (ask them to!) and then print some labels! I hate addressing them too. Gonna try to steal labels at work and do this. Let me know if you want me to do it for you  

I do have a label document from or wedding that I can update I guess but no printer so ill have to do it at mil and then she will probably do it for me.


Oh here's a good confession. My mil has started doing our laundry for us. It started us just taking ours over there to do since we don't have a washer and dryer and it turned into her doing it and folding it. I haven't done laundry in a month and its glorious

[devotchka]

Dec 4, 2013 15:57:49 GMT -5 @jayhawkali said:

Dec 4, 2013 15:54:40 GMT -5 devotchka said:

Make a spreadsheet w/ addresses that people email to you (ask them to!) and then print some labels! I hate addressing them too. Gonna try to steal labels at work and do this. Let me know if you want me to do it for you  

I do have a label document from or wedding that I can update I guess but no printer so ill have to do it at mil and then she will probably do it for me.


Oh here's a good confession. My mil has started doing our laundry for us. It started us just taking ours over there to do since we don't have a washer and dryer and it turned into her doing it and folding it. I haven't done laundry in a month and its glorious

Oooh that is awesome. Hey if she's into it then take advantage!!! Plus I know you hate it like I do  

[sunshineluv]

Dec 4, 2013 15:47:50 GMT -5 @thadsrad said:

DH and I got in a fight last night. We don't get in many. I destroyed things in my house. A picture frame and a plate. Because I'm just so mad and stressed and frustrated that I knocked things off tables like a child.

This is probably  not the appropriate reaction, but this made me laugh. I have felt like throwing things before, not so much in arguements with DH but with other frustrations. I have to ask, did it help you feel better?

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Dec 4, 2013 16:03:45 GMT -5 sunshineluv said:

Dec 4, 2013 15:47:50 GMT -5 @thadsrad said:

DH and I got in a fight last night. We don't get in many. I destroyed things in my house. A picture frame and a plate. Because I'm just so mad and stressed and frustrated that I knocked things off tables like a child.

This is probably  not the appropriate reaction, but this made me laugh. I have felt like throwing things before, not so much in arguements with DH but with other frustrations. I have to ask, did it help you feel better?

For a few minutes......But then I felt worse because it was such a childish thing to do.  

[devotchka]

Dec 4, 2013 15:57:11 GMT -5 @thadsrad said:

Dec 4, 2013 15:55:06 GMT -5 devotchka said:

Wow... what was the fight about? 

He hasn't been feeling the love from me lately.  Which is probably true.  I'm so tapped out right now I just have nothing left to give.  

I should add, I didn't break anything AT him.  No one was in the room with me. 

I think I need a punching bag.  

hugs! or maybe some other physical outlet?