Oh my god. I've been thinking about you all day. I'm so, so sorry for your loss. You and your H will be in my thoughts and prayers...let me know if there's anything you need.
Post by amaristella on Dec 6, 2013 19:53:22 GMT -5
It should be considered medical malpractice to wait until the third one to do testing. I know that this is a terrible time for you to have to argue for yourself in front of a doctor, but if you need to, don't forget to bring up how late this loss occurred. I was able to get the full spectrum of testing after my first loss because it was second trimester. You deserve as many answers as medicine can give you.
I'm so, so sorry. I logged in specifically to check on you and was in shock to see your title...I must have said NO to the computer screen at least 10 times. Words cannot describe how heartbroken I am for you and your DH. So many hugs, thoughts, and prayers for you now and in the upcoming weeks.
Definitely push for testing and do not accept no for an answer. I think it's cruel to have to go through this 3 times before getting any answers (my practice is typically the same but I was able to get chromosome testing, will have my uterus checked out, and have a request for a referral to see a specialist...however, this is taking way too long!). Praying that you at least get some answers so that you do not have to go through this again.
I'm here for you if you need anything. So sorry you are going through this again. ((hugs))