I knew he was unhappy, but I am surprised he decided he didn't want to do counseling or anything. I understand why he's unhappy.
Jezebel based on this post it seems like you want to at least try to make it work and he doesn't at all. I'm not going to ask any nitty gritty details but I hope you are not putting too much blame on yourself. If anything, get a counselor stat to help start healing from this. And you may be saying that it is amicable now, but you need to watch out for yourself as well, emotionally as well as financially. Watch the bank accounts like a hawk. If you have auto deposit stop it and get a separate account for yourself. I speak from experience.
Oh no Jez. I can totally relate, and if you ever need someone to talk to, I am here. Don't be afraid to lean on us for support. These ladies have been amazing, and really helped me through. You and your daughter will be so much better than you have ever imaged. ::hugs:: (heart)
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