I've been dreading the thought of being pregnant again since I was so sick last time. But, all of a sudden, within the last week or so, I've decided I want to TTC again (we were thinking adoption for #2 but now might wait for #3 as originally planned). It was like a switch flipped and I passed the "you'll-forget-how-bad-it-was" line.
That said, we're still gonna wait until end of this year or start of next for spacing sake. I'll definitely be ready then.
I'll take "Hell to the no" for $1000, Alex. And I'll take it for 2015 and possibly forever too.
This. We have a wedding to go to in Africa at the end of next year and were talking tonight about whether we should bring M or leave him here. H made a comment about it all depending on whether we had another one by then and I just looked at him like he had sprouted another head.
Post by thebreakfastclub on Feb 14, 2014 7:43:49 GMT -5
With DS now one, I am heading into Camp OAD. We had an easier first year than most, but I am not sure I want to do it again. I will be 38 this year, so there really isn't a ton of time to decide.
my h made a joke about another one and it terrified me. we are both one and done and he thought he was being funny. it's not funny until you get the V, h!
I'd rather wait until DD is 1.5 to even go off birth control. That way the kiddos are at least 2 years and some change apart. I'd rather a 3 year gap in a perfect world. DH wants them back to back. Too bad DH.
Just blame it on the OB/midwife. I believe mine said waiting at least 18 months is ideal to allow your body to restore all the nutrients you lose during pregnancy.
This. We have a wedding to go to in Africa at the end of next year and were talking tonight about whether we should bring M or leave him here. H made a comment about it all depending on whether we had another one by then and I just looked at him like he had sprouted another head.
We're shooting for a 2-3ish year age gap, so the earliest would be at the end of this year. Which sounds absolutely absurd to me at this point, but H wanted Irish twins so he's ready anytime.
I voted for "we are TTC" but "sexing it up all the time" is definitely overstating things! There's no time or energy for that We've basically just pulled the goalie and will see how things go.
No way Jose!!! Dh is going for the snip sometime soon... or else he's never getting any action from now to menopause... (I'm 40, so it's not like that's 20+ years away or anything...)