No sex before monogamy

[Saint Monica]

I'm watching millionaire matchmaker.

how does one know they are monogamous ?

sincerely,

hopefully former slut with no boundaries 

pdq 

[doriswe]

Ummm by having a conversation to discuss it?!?!

[Saint Monica]

I'm so used to making excuses for myself and others. I'm also super cynical. Because of this the lines that I would normally deem common sense are very very blurry. I'm trying to make a change in my life.

[Kore]

Monogamy isn't for everybody. Dan Savage has some good articles about it.

Not saying you need to lie to partners or anything, but it's not wrong to seek out more open relationships. You don't have to conform to norms.

[Deleted]

Um, yeah..no sex before monogamy is a nice idea.  However, when you're dating and playing the field, is that realistic??  If you are dating one person that you'd like to be exclusive with, cool...but how do you know if you've never had the sex??  

[achase123]

For me this is the best way to do it. Sometimes I let feelers get in the way once I've had the sex. If I'm monogamous this helps to calm me down.

[lyssbobiss, Command, B613]

Feb 14, 2014 18:00:10 GMT -5 Kore said:

Monogamy isn't for everybody. Dan Savage has some good articles about it.

Not saying you need to lie to partners or anything, but it's not wrong to seek out more open relationships. You don't have to conform to norms.

I love this.

That is all.

Signed,

I have an open relationship

[Kore]

Feb 14, 2014 21:10:42 GMT -5 lyssbobiss, Command, B613 said:

Feb 14, 2014 18:00:10 GMT -5 Kore said:

Monogamy isn't for everybody. Dan Savage has some good articles about it.

Not saying you need to lie to partners or anything, but it's not wrong to seek out more open relationships. You don't have to conform to norms.

I love this.

That is all.

Signed,

I have an open relationship

I'm so jealous.