I'm hardcore judging a friend

[amberlyrose]

She has two kids, two different dads and never married. I don't blame her, #2 baby daddy was a douchenozzle. BUT she is always talking shit about #2 on FB and has had a revolving door of guys in and out of her life since they broke up. Every single guy is the love of her life for 5-8 months.
Anyway, she just posted that her oldest (6ish?) just called her new bf 'daddy' and she's so happy that both girls call him that. WTMF?! She's been with him less than 6 months! And they both have a dad in their life.
I know she'd flip her shit if she found out the girls were calling new step mom 'mommy' and they've made it legal.
I want to shake her so much because I love her but boys make her stupid.

[Kore]

I have one of those on me FB feed. It's kind of horrifying

[Deleted]

That's so sad. Kids will remember this kind of stuff & end up with serious self worth & abandonment issues.

[kayakjenn]

That's short sighted and sad. My niece still feels the hurt of my sister introducing a boyfriend and his whole family wayyy too early. The guy made promises of things he was going to do with my neice (going places like fishing or to the city) and she became super close with his family and WHAM! Guy gone, no contact with the family and my niece was really hurt.

Calling someone Daddy after 6 months when dad is in the picture and there is a revolving door of men? Hell no!

[Deleted]

I had to de friend someone for similar reasons. She also trashed the kids real dad in front of them but he was actually a decent guy.

[pamela]

You're friends with my SIL?

[milosh]

I think we are friends with the same person on FB. She even calls him her 'hubby'. I pretty much just stay friends with her because its so entertaining!

[picaflora]

This person on my fb feed is... my niece. =0( She hasn't had her kid yet, but there's been a revolving door of guys that she quickly moves in with, and then changes her status to "engaged" within a week or so. I'm REALLY hoping when she has the kid she settles down. Baby daddy was out of the picture within a month or two.

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Feb 19, 2014 6:07:20 GMT -5 @savestheday said:

That's so sad. Kids will remember this kind of stuff & end up with serious self worth & abandonment issues.

This.

Not that I know from expierence.

Ugh.

[amberlyrose]

Feb 19, 2014 7:45:37 GMT -5 @lauriergirl28 said:

I had to de friend someone for similar reasons. She also trashed the kids real dad in front of them but he was actually a decent guy.

We've been friends since 9th grade and we're in a wedding together this year. I know saying anything to her will do no good but I have to see her do this to herself and it sucks. I just want to shake her. Argh!