sautee with onions, pepper, celery, and garlic in hot oil (is this frying? I don't know). add some tomatoes. add some cajun seasonings and a bay leaf. add some andouille sausage and/or shrimp.
I love fried okra. I am not much of a fried food person but my Grandma always made this growing up and I love it. I dip it in corn meal and pan fry (so not deep fried.) Now I want some....