My sister's husband kicked her out, and I think she 110% deserved every bit of it. She has been a miserable bitch, and this was a long time coming. I am also confident she has been cheating on him with a female co-worker of hers.
I've always heard people in their 30s say it was better than their 20s.
At 32, I think my 30s will be a blast. It's still pretty young and hot, except you have some life lessons under your belt.
And if you are me, you are a bit more established.
I am cool with not being 21 anymore. It wasn't that great!
xoxo- perky tic tacs
I love my H and wouldn't change being married but sometimes I do wish I had the opportunity to be single now that I'm in my 30s and have so much more confidence and experience than I did in my early 20s. And my tits are perky and fabulous!
In interviews done with elderly people at the end of their lives, they almost always cite mid 40's-60's as the best part of their lives. So now being 34, I am looking forward to keep on keeping on.
My sister's husband kicked her out, and I think she 110% deserved every bit of it. She has been a miserable bitch, and this was a long time coming. I am also confident she has been cheating on him with a female co-worker of hers.
My best age was 3yrs-6yrs. No bills or chores, I was smart enough to figure out where mom hid the cookies and could eat them without worry of weight gain or health. Kindergarten was fun and I got to nap. I got away with wearing leggings as pants and no one talked shit.
sorry snickers. Are you close with your sister? What did you say when you found out?
We used to be, but I pretty much cut her out after she ruined Christmas for the second year in a row. l have only spoke to her a couple of times about it, and I haven't really said anything. I'll listen to her. She has a messed up sense of reality, so it's hard to even commiserate with her. One of the reasons they broke up is because she spends her $$ on weed, hair, and nail appointments, and name brand clothing while he has paid all of the bills for a long time. She lies about everything and anything she can, so who even knows the truth. She is a manager for wal mart, and has made wal mart her ENTIRE life. No one in our family is allowed to talk about any other store or she throws a bigger fit than a toddler would if they were told no. She is so damn mean to everyone that calling her is something you have to work yourself up for, so I don't do it often.
I always want to punch people in the taint who tell me my 20s are my best time of my life.
This age, to me (25) feels like middle school all over again. If this is the best time of my life, I'm really not into...my life. lol
This is how my mom put it:
In your 20s you work really hard at everything b/c you feel like you have something to prove. In your 30s you think you know everything b/c the 20s happened, but they're fun and you don't need to work quite as hard. In your 40s you DGAF, actually do know a thing or two, and have worked hard enough to be able to reap some rewards from that hard work. In your 50s (she's 52 this year) so far she says her biggest worry is prepping for the future, so sort of like the 20s, but w all the bonuses of her 40s.
I turn 28 this year and I cannot WAIT to turn 30. I'm trying to come up with the biggest baddest assest plan for a celebration. That hopefully won't cost 100000$.
My SIL and BIL are going through a knock down drag out divorce. I mean, really you couldn't make this shit up. I think she's BSC but he's put up with it for so long that I wonder about him too. He's been trying to divorce her for 2+ years now, they just found out the other day that the state is going to take over the case. They have two boys and they are really affected by it all. Neither of them will come out looking great. Selfishly I really really hope that the state does not ask me questions because I don't want to be involved. It's embarrassing enough that I have the same last name as her. She is legit off her rocker.
I'm kind of lol that studytime is posting in other threads and totally ignoring this like it didn't ever happen.
I'm not ignoring. Have I been asked further questions that I missed? I think it's just general making fun, which is warranted, but still. I don't think I have to be in here making a further ass of myself, KWIM?
I'm not ignoring. Have I been asked further questions that I missed? I think it's just general making fun, which is warranted, but still. I don't think I have to be in here making a further ass of myself, KWIM?
Probably not, but what do I know? I'm just a saggy-titted old hag, right?
Well, I didn't want to 'defend' or explain that comment.
I don't think that about you (plural). I think continually coming into my posts and commenting on my age is equivalent to me making shitty comments in the other direction. That's all I was trying to equate, and obviously lashed out in the process.
Not looking for 'forgiveness' or whatever. Just explaining why I'm not dwelling. I apologize.
Study - I have always liked you and I think you're a sweet girl but please, please think this situation through. It's one thing if you want to play the field or whatever, but this guys has huge red flags, dangerous type flags. You may not insult people here but when you said the following is when the 'pile on' started. It was mild, btw. When you say all of the things you 'don't say, you actually say them.
I don't care about your age but your safety is a concern and I do worry about that with this guy. Take care of yourself.
Um, I posted it in a flameful. I expected to get shit for it. I can also call people out for their condescension. My age is always called out and it's annoying. I don't go in every post calling you guys old hags and wondering out loud how your husbands can deal with all the dry skin and saggy boobs.
I'm sorry for that comment. My intent was to offend, because I felt judged. Obviously my age showing itself, since that is a shitty way to deal with my feelings.
Again, I apologize. I don't actually think those things.
And about cabin-dude: Thank you for looking out for me. I really do appreciate it. I will take care of myself.
It's kind of funny how if you're getting flamed and you defend yourself, you get called out for being defensive or backpedaling. If you stop engaging, you get called out for ignoring or acting like it never happened. Apparently the only acceptable response is "everyone here is right. I suck." lol
Vaginal dryness. Gets in the way when I'm about to engage in sexual relations with this guy who keeps suitcases full of snakes in an empty house with mazes drawn all over the walls.
It's kind of funny how if you're getting flamed and you defend yourself, you get called out for being defensive or backpedaling. If you stop engaging, you get called out for ignoring or acting like it never happened. Apparently the only acceptable response is "everyone here is right. I suck." lol
Welcome to ML. You can stay now that you know this.
When someone posts a thread basically saying "LOOK AT ME I'M MAKING A CLASSIC STUPID YOUNG PERSON BAD DECISION!" its really rude to point out the obvious.
Okay so I didn't read everything but I think I got the gist:
Study: I want to tell a flameful hehe Other people: TELL US oh and boudoir photos Study: I want to cheat on BF with the unabomber from a few years ago Other people: Bad idea here are some flames Study: OMG you old dry hags you don't know my lyffffeee, why are you flaming me?!?!
If I am close I only have this to add to the pile on. I have plenty of thoughts that run through my head that would get me flamed to hell here, maybe because they are truly flameful, maybe because I could never share enough backstory, or maybe because you don't know my lyfe. I know that if I did share them I would freak out and get defensive and insulting. You know what that means, I keep that shit in my fucking head where it belongs. Maybe I share with DH but I trapped him into marriage so he is stuck with my crazy, saggy-titted ass.
Okay so I didn't read everything but I think I got the gist:
Study: I want to tell a flameful hehe Other people: TELL US oh and boudoir photos Study: I want to cheat on BF with the unabomber from a few years ago Other people: Bad idea here are some flames Study: OMG you old fat dry hags you don't know my lyffffeee, why are you flaming me?!?!
If I am close I only have this to add to the pile on. I have plenty of thoughts that run through my head that would get me flamed to hell here, maybe because they are truly flameful, maybe because I could never share enough backstory, or maybe because you don't know my lyfe. I know that if I did share them I would freak out and get defensive and insulting. You know what that means, I keep that shit in my fucking head where it belongs. Maybe I share with DH but I trapped him into marriage so he is stuck with my crazy, saggy-titted ass.
I read this ass your ass having saggy tits on it. The visual won't leave my brain.
After popping out this kid they aren't much north of my ass so the visual may be close. YWIA
I'm kind of lol that studytime is posting in other threads and totally ignoring this like it didn't ever happen.
I'm not ignoring. Have I been asked further questions that I missed? I think it's just general making fun, which is warranted, but still. I don't think I have to be in here making a further ass of myself, KWIM?
I'm just laughing because you started the post saying you wanted to hide it in a flameful thread. You really thought you could hide that and nobody would notice?