Can you guys send some T&P our direction?

[WOT?*]

We put my dad in an Alzheimer's treatment facility a few weeks ago. His wife had a heart attack on Memorial Day and had to be hospitalized. She had open heart surgery about two weeks ago. I've been trying to get status updates but the hospital can't release info without a passcode and I never thought to get one from her daughter.

I just got a text from her daughter in response to my asking about how she's doing since she's still in ICU (two and a half weeks after surgery.) She had a triple bypass (which I knew) but she's also subsequently had two strokes and has a trach inserted. She's been trying to pull the trach out and it's going to be a long road to recovery.

T&P for her recovery. T&P for my dad would be welcome but he's not going to recover. He's late stages and bedridden. T&P for my dad would be for peace and rest and good health and to know he is loved.

[marylou]

Aw, I'm sorry. That's a lot of tough stuff to deal with. T&P for sure.

[GailGoldie]

i'm so sorry you (and they) are going through all of that. T&P for you all.

[pugz]

((hugs)) I'm so sorry t&ps for sure

[tripleshot]

I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

[Deleted]

My thoughts are with you.

[drloretta]

I'm so sorry. Sending T&Ps your way.

My BFF is going through a similar situation with her parents. I can't imagine.

[theintended]

I'm sorry MrsBPO. Good thoughts for them and for you, too.

[orangeblossom]

Praying you and your family.

[Pom]

Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

[aspentosh]

Wow, that's a lot to deal with I am so sorry! Definitely sending T&Ps.

[ssmjlm]

Sending lots of T&Ps. You definitely have a lot to deal with right now and I hope that whatever the result, things work for for the best.

[whitepicketfence]

I'm so sorry.

Sending lots of good thoughts and prayers your way.

[McGavin]

Sorry you're dealing with all that.

[raangoli]

I am so sorry to hear. Thoughts and prayers for both.

[rubytue]

I'll keep your family in my thoughts. Alzheimer's sucks, but I hope your father is comfortable and at peace. And that your stepmom has a good recovery.

[agnes]

Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.

We went through something similar when my grandfather had quadruple bypass surgery. But they didn't know he had the strokes until about a month and a half later. He had a lot of rehab and a speech therapist come at least once a week. About a year later he was pretty much back to normal.

[mrs.spunky]

Sending tons of thoughts, prayers & hugs your family's way, mrsbpo!