s/o is this cheating?

[Champagne Supernova]

Not cheating but when porn becomes an addiction and he chooses to watch it over having sex with me, then we got a problem up in this bitch.

[textbookcase]

um, no.

[TrickyBob]

Mar 6, 2014 15:21:15 GMT -5 kevin arnold said:

Mar 6, 2014 15:17:11 GMT -5 TrickyBob said:

 I know a girl that considers her husband cheating if he so much as looks at another girl, let alone porn.

Way to set someone up for failure.

ETA:  Can I assume you called her a "girl" because she is in fact under 18?  That would make much more sense.

They are getting divorced. She makes him stare at the ground when he orders food, if the cashier is a woman. 

I call her a girl because she acts like one. She's my age.

[leeann]

No.

[CloudBee]

No.

[thatgirl2478]

no. I'm ok with it so long as it's not to the exclusion of sex with me.  If it starts interfering with our intimacy, it's a problem.

[cville]

What? No. Jimminy Christmas. It's a marriage, not a chapter of 1984.

[laceylaplante]

No. I used to, back when I was an insecure child. I couldn't care less. I look sometimes too.

[Deleted]

Um. No.

[papie]

No. I really don't understand how it could possibly be cheating.

[daisycat]

No

[shell24]

Nope.

[wysiwyg]

You know... as long as I can look at my porn without anyone getting a huff about it, then they can too. Just... not while I'm in the house, for fucks sake.

[MrsAggie]

Nope. We both watch it. We're both open about it and laugh about some of the ridiculousness that only exists in porn.

I imagine it would be cheating for the Duggars though.

[TC]

I don't think viewing porn could be considered cheating, but I think if there is an established "I'm not comfortable with pornography" discussion and the partner is secretly viewing porn, that's an issue. Not necessarily cheating, but an issue. We are pro porn here, but limits are limits to me and I couldn't be with someone that lacked self control in a sexual capacity so I can sympathize with needing porn being off limits.

I'd be bugged if my H watched porn without me because I like porn and would feel left out LOL

Live cam shows/cybering are definitely cheating in our relationship.

[eb777888]

No, not at all. I don't WANT to know about it, lol. I'm sure he feels the same way.

"Hey honey, I jerked it to porn today. Didn't wanna keep anything from you..."

[bohemianmango]

No but sometimes I get jealous of the looks he gives the computer monitor and his hand. I'm just one woman and can't compete with those moments they've shared together...

[cheeseandcrackers]

nope

[justcallmekhaleesi]

No lol.

[isabel]

We haven't discussed it, but I don't consider it cheating. DH isn't into porn, so it's not really a concern, but it wouldn't bother me if he looked at it.

[flutterfly]

Ha. Not at all.

[EmilieMadison]

The only way that might possibly be cheating is if the porn or dirty pictures are of someone he knows personally. That would cross a line for me.
But regular porn or dirty pictures? Have at it DH!

[MrsAggie]

nicbreeful that is exactly what makes me laugh about porn! Lol

[cleo29]

No. I think for some people it can become a problem where they are watching all the time and it really starts to have a negative impact on their life, but even then I don't think of it as cheating.

[saucyc]

LOL, no.

[sineadorebellion]

No. So long as he doesn't become addicted to it or looks at anything illegal. Other than that, knock yourself out dude.

[Deleted]

looking at porn is not cheating. Banging a porn star is cheating. Banging someone other than your SO while watching porn is cheating.

My DH has been known to watch porn. I don't care. He isn't dishonest about it and its not often. more or less if I am sick or have my period.

We have also watched it together. So my comfort level is that as long as it isn't infringing on our marriage and as long as its not inappropriate I am fine with it.

[Deleted]

Mar 6, 2014 15:16:35 GMT -5 AutumnRose25 said:

Lol, is he supposed to call me whenever he wants to rub one out?

Also, am I supposed to call and get his permission if I want to do something on my own?



This is dumb.

hahaha I agree.

When I have my period sometimes I will notice the history on the laptop is cleared. I know its bc he had to rub one out. that's fine by me ;-)

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Mar 6, 2014 17:17:29 GMT -5 bohemianmango said:

No but sometimes I get jealous of the looks he gives the computer monitor and his hand. I'm just one woman and can't compete with those moments they've shared together...

this is awesome. I gave a big HA! when I read it. My coworker thinks I am nuts