WTF sisters?!

[louloudi87]

Poof

PDQ. I'm just ranting because it would be rude to put it on Facebook.

[Jalapeñomel]

[louloudi87]

Mar 9, 2014 12:53:57 GMT -5 @cse1960 said:

wtf
Do they live together? And, more importantly, is your married sister going to insist on a wedding reenactment? Do you feel you have to give a gift?

If she registers, you can kill her.

She doesn't want to have a wedding. But our parents do. Mine and his mom.  They do live together, the three of them live with his mom.  She asked if I was going to congratulate her, I told her she lost that when she waited two years to tell me.

[Monica Geller]

Holyshit! I'd be so hurt by this.

Maybe not the most grown-up response, but I'd go radio silent for a few days to sort my feelings out before confronting anyone.

[louloudi87]

I am so upset.

[louloudi87]

We were all on speaker phone together. My dad was with her when he called me. I asked other sister and she flat out lied. My mom had her on skype and she flat out lied.

[thinkofthesoldiers]

I bet she's knocked up with #2 and wanted to skip the "when are you getting married" questions.

[noodleoo]

I think it is sad that she felt she couldn't tell people. I wonder why? Did she say why they decided to keep it a secret?

I'd be hurt too. That kind of sucks. But it was her decision, so I'd try to let it go and be happy for her.

My brother eloped and it caused huge issues in my family. It is sad when what should be a happy event becomes a source of pain and hurt feelings. It took like 5 years for my parents to get past it, which I understand. I know why my brother did it, but if he had just faced everyone in the beginning it would have saved so much suffering.

[louloudi87]

Mar 9, 2014 13:07:33 GMT -5 thinkofthesoldiers said:

I bet she's knocked up with #2 and wanted to skip the "when are you getting married" questions.

We've joked and talked about them getting married for two years.  

Honestly, my parents and her MIL really wanted to throw them a wedding. I'm sure MIL is more upset than anyone. He's the only one who had marriage potential of all of her kids.

[louloudi87]

Mar 9, 2014 13:09:23 GMT -5 @cse1960 said:

Mar 9, 2014 13:07:23 GMT -5 louloudi87 said:

We were all on speaker phone together. My dad was with her when he called me. I asked other sister and she flat out lied. My mom had her on skype and she flat out lied.

sounds like they all knew you'd be upset, hence the big family conference call. 

No one tells me anything anyway. I live twenty minutes away from them and they live within walking distance. So they hang out all the time anyway. Conference calls are normal in my family.

[awick14]

I would be so upset.

I am very close to my siblings, if they did this I would be fuming.

[isabel]

Um, what? This is insane! What was her reason for not telling you? And I'm even more wtf that you're the godmother and haven't known for two years.

[louloudi87]

Mar 9, 2014 13:21:48 GMT -5 isabel said:

Um, what? This is insane! What was her reason for not telling you? And I'm even more wtf that you're the godmother and haven't known for two years.

I haven't talked to her one on one yet. Maybe after my dr's appointment tomorrow I'll talk to her.