So many! She doesn't exactly tantrum, just demands non stop until she gets these things. Top of my head:
Bus Horsie (meaning either the movie Frozen or Tangled) Doctor (I hyped going to my doctors appointments up so much that she sees it as the best thing ever, also we took the bus to the doctor) Lollipop
Milk (we limit it because he would happily down a gallon a day on his own)
No
Blanket (he's become strangely attached to ALL the blankets recently and dragged my king size down comforter through the apartment the other day)
That's interesting, Henry just recently became attached to all blankets too! I am trying to prevent him having a blankie, I was shocked the attachment came so late.
Bath Nap/bed Outside Caillou! Dora Costco Target Applesauce Blueberries Cheese Coffee (I've never given it to her!) French fries Pizza Basically any food she enjoys lol
I'm glad to hear that this is a thing! There are certain words that I avoid saying in front of Andrew, but DH thinks I'm crazy. He says them freely, and then Andrew freaks out and tantrums. He argues that Andrew needs to get over it. I argue that it's normal and that our parents spelled stuff out in front of us as kids. Some things just aren't worth the potential battle. He doesn't get it.
If I mention any of these and don't immediately follow through, I'm screwed.
ETA: also paci now. I just spent a whiny hour trying to distract him from asking for it, and avoiding the answer. He's watching mickey instead now lol.
Why is "no" on the forbidden list? I say this 15000 times a day. I dont know how else to say she cant be doing something. LOL
I try not to use it so much because it is his STRONGEST WORD. So we say nuh uh, or do not do that. Well when i can remember. I still say it all the time.
Why is "no" on the forbidden list? I say this 15000 times a day. I dont know how else to say she cant be doing something. LOL
I try not to use it so much because it is his STRONGEST WORD. So we say nuh uh, or do not do that. Well when i can remember. I still say it all the time.
No generally incites an immediate head-banging-into-the-floor tantrum. "Let's not..." or distraction works much more effectively for us.
Park (all walks realistically cannot end there) Pizza (only if delivery is imminent) Yoga (I don't go to yoga. I go "run an errand" for an hour. And come back sweaty.) Nana and papa (results in demands to see them immediately)