BF glanced over at my laptop as I was strolling past doriswe's post and asked what kind of message board I post on..lol!
Clearly only the classiest and best board, duh!
Lol. My H always catches me looking at boobs or ass on the internet. It's not on purpose, I swear! We'll, maybe. I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm a closet lesbian or something.
@pdx18 now I'm annoyed. I had the party last night and she didn't come. Fine, whatever, but she spend the entire.freaking.night on our blogger facebook group! Two of my other blog friends kept saying "Why is she not here but she's blowing up the FB group?!". If you cancel something because you're depressed, don't go all willy nilly on social media and expect me not to be upset. Am I wrong?
@pdx18 now I'm annoyed. I had the party last night and she didn't come. Fine, whatever, but she spend the entire.freaking.night on our blogger facebook group! Two of my other blog friends kept saying "Why is she not here but she's blowing up the FB group?!". If you cancel something because you're depressed, don't go all willy nilly on social media and expect me not to be upset. Am I wrong?
But social media you can do from home and not have to be around anyone .... If she was out of her house I'd be upset but I don't really see them as comparable otherwise.
I still think it's rude. You don't cancel on blogger friends and then spend the whole night publicly interacting with other blogger friends. It's like a slap in the face. Like, you were too down to come to my small gathering (we're close friends, not just acquaintances) but you could spend the whole night on FB interacting with other people you don't know? I'd get if it's on here or something but it was literally in a private group, about cheery things, all freaking right. WTF?! Also, she ignored our mutual friend's texts asking if she was coming, if she was ok, etc. If you're not coming, own it, don't ignore someone and then blow up the FB group.
I'm just starting to get sick of it. She won't help herself, won't talk to the doctor, won't accept friends' attempts at helping her and then cancels plans (a party we came up with together that I executed), ignores people, and puts me in an awkward position of telling people that she's sick etc. and then posts all night and makes me look like an ass when people asked me about it. I felt horrible.
ETA: mp I texted her saying I hope she felt better and that I didn't know what to tell people last night. I explained that I understand that people deal with things differently and that I was a little hurt but wasn't upset anymore and that she was missed. I needed to tell her and she apologized even though she didn't really need to and I feel better now. I appreciate your perspective.
mcc that is annoying and I think you're totally justified in being hurt. I'm glad you were able to talk to her and feel better. I have crippling social anxiety that would prevent me from going to social gatherings even when I know most of the people. I'm not trying to make excuses for her for at all, because I know how frustrating it can be. I hope that she decides to get the help she needs. I can't even believe how much better my life is after working on this for years and am kicking myself for all I missed out and how miserable I was for years.