s/o dry spells, what's ideal?

[sprky79]

I'm probably a 1/week-er.

[sprky79]

*shrug* Sometimes we'll go a few weeks if we both get busy, and its not a big deal. Also, he's not the only person in this relationship that can get me to orgasm :-). If I have a need before then and he's not around, its not like I have no solutions to this problem :-)

[Deleted]

5-6/week.

[annyong]

Jul 13, 2012 12:47:47 GMT -5 kevin arnold said:

Jul 13, 2012 12:44:45 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

I like orgasms, but I don't really like sex. Yes, it has gotten to that point, folks. Probably time to talk to the doc about adjusting the ol' antidepressants.

Gypsy, you're on top of this, yes?

lol! i think i love you. don't hurt me, melinda!

[alzi]

3-4x a week.

[bcv513]

I could be an every day person. I'm assuming this won't last long once we're actually married.

[hubes]

I fear that now that DH and I are trying to have sex on a regular basis, it is not going to be as good as out once a week (or once every two week) session.

*sigh*

[iamgrace]

Jul 13, 2012 13:42:36 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

Jul 13, 2012 13:41:53 GMT -5 toledo said:

Wow, people are different. Shocker.

Save it for the bedroom, toledo!

Hahaha.

[Deleted]

Jul 13, 2012 13:42:36 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

Jul 13, 2012 13:41:53 GMT -5 toledo said:

Wow, people are different. Shocker.

Save it for the bedroom, toledo!

If you like the shocker, you should try the minivan- two in the front, five in the back.

[alleycat]

I don't mind doing it every day but my husband has the worst fucking timing. So it seems like I'm shooting him down a lot but really it's just common sense. He always wants to have sex when I get back from teaching and I'm super sweaty.

[alleycat]

Jul 13, 2012 12:40:09 GMT -5 @stpete said:

I don't get not wanting to have sex weekly. What's not to like about orgasms?

Oh man this will end up like the one about not getting how people don't like water or sleeping in or black coffee. We are all made differently.

[Marle]

My threshold is of about twice a week. I happily survive with once a week but have crazy sex dreams when it gets closer to that mark.

[Marle]

We are all different. Some people get rhetorical questions some don't

[papie]

Once a week. Dh's ideal is every day, so we compromise with 2-3 times a week.

[Deleted]

I wish I had the drive and energy for every other day. We're both so much nicer and more affectionate when it's frequent.

[Jalapeñomel]

I'd like it once a day.

[CaliSpiderman]

Yeah, I totally believe you're not fucking someone. Totally.

[Deleted]

Jul 13, 2012 15:17:19 GMT -5 @stpete said:

I'd like it now. Although that's not going to happen.

Have you been updating about your stuff? I miss a lot and dont want to start a thread to ask.

[sb]

It's like you're on fucking Rumspringa. Jesus.

[Deleted]

Invaders!

[scotty]

Jul 13, 2012 13:42:36 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

Jul 13, 2012 13:41:53 GMT -5 toledo said:

Wow, people are different. Shocker.

Save it for the bedroom, toledo!

lol

[scotty]

Oh, you do talk about sex an amount that most of us old married b*tches don't. Don't think that I'm not jealous (omg she's jealous!) of your b*tchin' sex life. My vagina rides around on one of those old lady Lark scooters. It's pathetic.

[RobotLegs]

I don't remember the last time we had sex. My H told me last a week or so ago that it's been half a year. I don't know if that's true.

Yes, I'm aware it's a problem.

[scotty]

Jul 13, 2012 15:43:44 GMT -5 cjoy said:

Jul 13, 2012 15:38:13 GMT -5 scotty said:

Oh, you do talk about sex an amount that most of us old married b*tches don't. Don't think that I'm not jealous (omg she's jealous!) of your b*tchin' sex life. My vagina rides around on one of those old lady Lark scooters. It's pathetic.

I thought the problem was that her sex life was decidedly not bitchin'.

I know that we're not talking about for obvious reasons, but I had thought that it was now. Wtf am I thinking this?

I don't care. (If it is awesome, you go, girl.)

[dowagercountess]

It does look like you got sex on the brain, St. Pete.

[Marle]

Huh? Maybe my logic is wrong but I would think that if you're taking time to figure out your relationship and a big part of this figuring out is your sex life and if this is a couple issue, an individual issue, what's normal, etc. I'd expect you to be thinking about it quite a bit.
I'm uncomfortable with the blatant accusations.

[jens]

Come on. Just be honest. Is it a coworker? When you do it with him (..her..?) do you make that same odd "Oh!" face you always make when you take pictures? TELL USSSSSSS

[RobotLegs]

Jul 13, 2012 16:15:58 GMT -5 jens said:

Come on. Just be honest. Is it a coworker? When you do it with him (..her..?) do you make that same odd "Oh!" face you always make when you take pictures? TELL USSSSSSS

Why are you being such an asshole?

[scotty]

They're coming from Advice from Groomz, I think. And that board is disappointingly dead.

[RobotLegs]

From their thuper thpecial thecret clubhouse, toledo!