This is a first for me. I'm extremely picky about accepting a first date and while I've been on five first dates with different men, I only went on to a second with two of them, and P is the first that I actually wanted to see again. I have absolutely no red flags wavering in my mind or a nagging "something is off" feeling in my gut, at all. I just like him and find him attractive and he seems to really like me too, even after I've gotten nervously chatty and shared way too much (not big stuff like break up details, just that I prefer dogs, that one of the reasons for that is I think if I died in my house and no one found the body for a week my dog would at least feel guilty for starting to eat me but my cat wouldn't care. Yes. I actually said that on the date. I turned bright red after I finished saying it and he laughed and seemed to find it funny). He took me to an arcade because I'd mentioned I loved Mario Kart and Air hockey, and asks a bunch of questions and texts often, but never in the overbearing "I feel like I've met my future best friend" way the last guy did. He talks lovingly about his daughter and we have many of the same favorite things.