This is okay, right? Fling question

[hobs209]

I've been out with the physicist a few times now and while we don't have much in common, I'm enjoying casually going out fun places with him (also the sex was gooood). I was concerned he had more feelings for me so on Friday I told him that I didn't want a relationship and just wanted to have fun. He said that was fine. So I'm the clear, right? It's okay to see him and hook up and it's on him to tell me if he wants more? I've never done this without wanting more so I'm a little unsure.

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well, you are clear until you see him becoming attached..

[jojoandleo]

Jul 15, 2012 9:40:51 GMT -5 mags said:

well, you are clear until you see him becoming attached..

Exactly. You are in the clear, but if you see him becoming more attached, be kind to him and break it off. Just don't lead him on and make him think there COULD be more. You said the words, but you also have to show him through actions.

[lookingup]

Jul 15, 2012 10:05:02 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Jul 15, 2012 9:40:51 GMT -5 mags said:

well, you are clear until you see him becoming attached..

Exactly. You are in the clear, but if you see him becoming more attached, be kind to him and break it off. Just don't lead him on and make him think there COULD be more. You said the words, but you also have to show him through actions.

I agree with this. Also if you continue to go out, I would go dutch.