Update on my lame friend

[blackkitty]

In my experience you can tell your friend all you want, and they can even agree with you but at the end of the day they'll end up marrying the douchecanoe anyway. At least that's what my XBFF is about to do

[Deleted]

Eh I mean you can say whatever you want, it isn't going to change her mind. He sounds douchey but not to the point where I would have said anything unless specifically asked. Maybe she doesn't mind they aren't exclusive? Did she ask your opinion about him?

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Jul 17, 2012 15:56:12 GMT -5 @redvelvet29 said:

And she says the sex is horrible.... he is not good, takes like 2 hours and she isn't even having orgasms

WHAT??? I assumed the sex was amazing and that's why she was sticking with him. WTF. Seriously WTF.

[Deleted]

Okay then yes, she has some serious issues. I was all like give her a break and let her get some. But umm wow. Also how much time does he have to be sleeping with other people if it takes TWO hours?

[BlueBayou]

I don't think you were a bitch at all. U were a true friend. The problem is friends dont want to hear bad things about someone they want to be with.

[mandimija]

They're not gonna hear it unless they're ready. You didn't do a damn thing wrong. I promise.

[ECB]

NOthing may change, but then again, you being really blunt might get her to start thinking a little more and start looking at things he does and says in a different light.

The friendship may be over - even if she does wake up and realize he's a douche, she might also be embarassed to admit you're right and not want to be around you.

Or nothing will ever change. Who knows.

But you did what you felt was right and good for you.