I don't want to provide details and I debated putting this here or not and I just need support. But tonight it got worse than what it was.
Tonight I called the woman my husband has been texting/talking to. I started off in the kitchen; "hi are you so and so?" and kept on with "I am so and so's wife" and asked her a few questions. She had zero idea he was married. She said had she known, she would never take up with a married man. She was so sorry and called him a bunch of names. He had told me he met her at work. I asked. Nope, okcupid.
I walked into the living room and had the entire discussion with her in front of him. I asked her, in front of him, "if someone did this to you, would you be ok with it?"
And then I threw the phone, punched a wall, and yelled at him.
He told me that had I been a better wife, perhaps he wouldn't have done it. And that she wasn't the only one, there were more. And then he went to work.
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
Oh man. I am so, so sorry. I'm sure you know this, but it bears repeating- his actions are not at all a result of you "not being a better wife". His actions are a result of him being an asshole. So sorry.
Post by flamingeaux on May 28, 2014 21:39:17 GMT -5
I'm sorry Bob. I can't imagine how you're feeling right now. Take care of yourself.
Lest I forget. Screw him, with a flathead screwdriver. he's a dirty low down jerk, and you deserve waaaay better.
I have a few suggestions Scrub the toilet with his toothbrush, and fill his shampoo bottle with nair. Then use some self tanner and write ASSHOLE on his forehead, when he's asleep.
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"