Post by Ohhmm(bligo) on Jul 18, 2014 12:17:13 GMT -5
I HAVE BEEN CLEARED FOR SEX.
I only had to stop myself from yelling 'GIGGITY' once, when Hot Doc said he would be more than happy to do my breast exams. Jesus Christ he's cute. Holy Hell I am horny.
I went and bought new sheets, and pillows, and lingerie.
"You. You and your crazy life. You and your geographic anomaly. You and your drunken lesbianic ways and terrible navigational skills." - ProfArt and her holy baby
it's not as fun if you know the full story. He won't care, but I'd like him to not know at least through Christmas. We share a bank account though so he's bound to see the payments.
"You. You and your crazy life. You and your geographic anomaly. You and your drunken lesbianic ways and terrible navigational skills." - ProfArt and her holy baby
Honestly, I would be pissed as hell if my H did that. I wouldn't care if he went and got one; I'd just be pissed that he would hide it from me.
Yes. Having a credit card you're legally responsible for taken out without your knowledge is not a joke. I mean, at least in my divorce I was liable for everything H took out (even in his name only) while we were married.
But from what you're saying, it seems like he might be vaguely aware of its existence if not the details of the account. (Still not okay in our marriage. I need to made aware of and to share that shit is indeed paid off etc.)
I've told him for months I was going to do it and I finally followed through. I just won't tell him until after Christmas so I can surprise him this year.
I've already made 2 payments y'all in less than a month.
Honestly, I would be pissed as hell if my H did that. I wouldn't care if he went and got one; I'd just be pissed that he would hide it from me.
Yes. Having a credit card you're legally responsible for taken out without your knowledge is not a joke. I mean, at least in my divorce I was liable for everything H took out (even in his name only) while we were married.
But from what you're saying, it seems like he might be vaguely aware of its existence if not the details of the account. (Still not okay in our marriage. I need to made aware of and to share that shit is indeed paid off etc.)
Another confession: I took out a CC in my mom's name after I had maxed out all my CC's in college. When I defaulted on payments, they tracked my mom down and, um yeah, she was PISSED off. They make it way too easy for people to get CC's. All I needed was her social and then <bam> insta credit card. She paid it off and I paid her back. And I certainly learned my lesson.
Post by firelight1210 on Jul 18, 2014 12:30:13 GMT -5
We're driving up to Oregon early tomorrow morning for a family reunion on my H's side. He volunteered to drive his 35 year old bum cousin and didn't ask me and I'm pissed. That means I'll have to sit in the backseat (the dude is 6'5" and muscle-y) and I can't hear for shit when I'm back there. And I like road trips with just my H. And this guy is not a good influence, and this has all been last minute and I'm not over it yet, lol.
I've told him for months I was going to do it and I finally followed through. I just won't tell him until after Christmas so I can surprise him this year.
I've already made 2 payments y'all in less than a month.
Yes. Having a credit card you're legally responsible for taken out without your knowledge is not a joke. I mean, at least in my divorce I was liable for everything H took out (even in his name only) while we were married.
But from what you're saying, it seems like he might be vaguely aware of its existence if not the details of the account. (Still not okay in our marriage. I need to made aware of and to share that shit is indeed paid off etc.)
Another confession: I took out a CC in my mom's name after I had maxed out all my CC's in college. When I defaulted on payments, they tracked my mom down and, um yeah, she was PISSED off. They make it way too easy for people to get CC's. All I needed was her social and then <bam> insta credit card. She paid it off and I paid her back. And I certainly learned my lesson.
I want to start a non-profit but I'm too afraid of being a spectacular failure, even though it's something I've wanted to do for a while. It's now annoying me that I may miss out on doing something good because I'm too much of a pansy.
I've finally decided to cut my mom off. She is severely mentally ill. The last 24 hours were the last straw for me. I'm starting intense therapy to deal with all the years of mental abuse. I've had to take legal steps to protect my family against her crazy antics that she doesn't even know about yet.