We often ran into each other. Once we started to plan to meet, it was weekly.
Ok I see that you're not into discussing it for the most part so feel free to not answer:
Did you both have feelings for each other? And did your h find out, or did you tell him?
Yes, but I think I had more feelings or deeper ones. B. is a do right kind of person and he wasn't going to do what he saw as the wrong thing. I had recently been very open with my feelings--the depth of them and it was indicated by him that we weren't going to hang out anymore, but then we were together recently unplanned and he talked my ear off for two hours and he even sang at one point/broke into song. He has such a nice voice. He's the king of mixed signals and I think, I assume because although there are feelings, they aren't feelings he is going to act on.
I told H after the board was like don't keep this to yourself, tell your H. But I didn't tell him all the things until later.
Ok I see that you're not into discussing it for the most part so feel free to not answer:
Did you both have feelings for each other? And did your h find out, or did you tell him?
Yes, but I think I had more feelings or deeper ones. B. is a do right kind of person and he wasn't going to do what he saw as the wrong thing. I had recently been very open with my feelings--the depth of them and it was indicated by him that we weren't going to hang out anymore, but then we were together recently unplanned and he talked my ear off for two hours and he even sang at one point/broke into song. He has such a nice voice. He's the king of mixed signals and I think, I assume because although there are feelings, they aren't feelings he is going to act on.
I told H after the board was like don't keep this to yourself, tell your H. But I didn't tell him all the things until later.
I appreciate you answering my questions
I have a million questions but I won't bother you with them. Good luck with everything
Yes, but I think I had more feelings or deeper ones. B. is a do right kind of person and he wasn't going to do what he saw as the wrong thing. I had recently been very open with my feelings--the depth of them and it was indicated by him that we weren't going to hang out anymore, but then we were together recently unplanned and he talked my ear off for two hours and he even sang at one point/broke into song. He has such a nice voice. He's the king of mixed signals and I think, I assume because although there are feelings, they aren't feelings he is going to act on.
I told H after the board was like don't keep this to yourself, tell your H. But I didn't tell him all the things until later.
I appreciate you answering my questions
I have a million questions but I won't bother you with them. Good luck with everything
Post by wanderlustmom on Jul 23, 2014 22:11:30 GMT -5
Speaking of nice, I am really nice and not that smart. DH is really smart and not that nice---well he is to me but doesn't really engage in pleasantries, seek out friends as much or talk to random strangers. No idea if there is a correlate but I often feel like my DDs gifted class first grade friends have more going on then me.
I hung out with a dude tonight...I realize I'm still pretty fresh from my separation, but meh, how else do you meet people?
Confession:
Guy was kind of a tool...at one point he was talking about how people can prevent cancer by taking care if themselves : / there are other examples if how we so would not talky get along, at all...
But he was pretty cute and interested in me so if he asks me our again, I'll probably say yes.
I hung out with a dude tonight...I realize I'm still pretty fresh from my separation, but meh, how else do you meet people?
Confession:
Guy was kind of a tool...at one point he was talking about how people can prevent cancer by taking care if themselves : / there are other examples if how we so would not talky get along, at all...
But he was pretty cute and interested in me so if he asks me our again, I'll probably say yes.
Meeting people is totally cool. So long as you don't jump into a new relationship, meet all the people!
I'm glad you had a decent time.
I think he was a super safe first time going out guy...there is zero long term potential, lol
Sparky is here. Its not the gay kitty snugglefest I'd hoped for, unfortunately. Its been 9 months since they've seen each other. Casanova is making trills and noises at him like when he wants to play and be pals, but Sparky is having none of his shit right now. Hopefully in a few days he'll acclimate.
Ex made a point of saying "WE'LL be back on the 7th." and "WE'LL be taking a shuttle" yadda yadda. Lol. I don't give a shit dude, I'm glad you've moved on so you can stop bugging me for sex.